Being a submissive means owning your strength. Only this way can there be a truly intense BDSM Total Power Exchange or TPE, argues writer Sienna Saint-Cyr.
When my Dom first told me he
Some people are happy to keep their submissive fantasy locked away in their head, but others can’t wait to get their freak on in real life. We give five ways to fulfil your kinkiest
What comes to mind when you think of safe words? Maybe the frantic screeching of, “Pineapple, congress, monkey, asshole!” as someone tries to remember it? Or is it just something “paranoid” kinky
In mainstream media, ideas around sexuality tend to be polarised into what’s acceptable and what’s weird, but we all know our kinky inclinations are more complicated than that. We explore what
One of the recurring ideas in The Sex Myth by Rachel Hills addresses our basic impulse to chase and encompass some idea of normal – in everyday life, dating, and particularly as it pertains to our
Foreplay is a vital part of any BDSM relationship, but we all need new, exciting ways to hear things up. Check out our best kinky foreplay tips and drive your play partner crazy.
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In a BDSM relationship, both the sub and Dom must know what they're getting into. We investigate the benefits and practicalities of a sex contract.
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There are so many preconceptions and judgments around sex. Just because you have lots of partners doesn't mean you're having meaningless sex, argues writer Abi Brown.
A few months ago,
Sex advice and stories are aplenty these days. Finding the stuff that pertains to the modern-day kinkster can be a challenge. While not all of the below podcasts are only about kink, they all explore
Finding kinksters on vanilla dating sites can be a bit tricky. Here are two of the most straightforward websites to use, and they just might show you that vanilla dating can be as kinky as you make
Vanessa was always fascinated by hypnosis and choking. She explains how an early interest in BDSM led her to a hypno fetish.
From an early age, Vanessa loved being controlled. She
The first date with a new sub can be daunting for both Dom and sub. Our guide shows you how to keep things hot, kinky and safe during your first BDSM date.
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To kink or not to kink? New relationships often bring lots of questions on whether or not to share fetishes. But what if you and your other half have completely different fetishes? Here are our tips
Maintaining a Dom/sub marriage can be difficult. Add two small children into the mix, and the challenge skyrockets and sexual growth sometimes comes to a screeching halt. As a teenager, Courtney
Depending on what you do for a living, you may not be able to be open about your kinky sex life and fetishes with those around you. This is the case for Brendan, a university professor and submissive
How do you spot a fetish adult dating site that actually delivers (apart from our own, of course)? Here's our essential guide on making your online kink dreams reality.
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When it comes to relationships, why settle for less? That's the view of one kinky Fetish member who thinks polyamory and being in a polyamorous relationship could be the way to go. After all, why
In our second instalment, Brendan ended up eating his own cum while chatting to a dominatrix online. But since then, he's found romance with a dominant girlfriend. But how will the story end? Read on
When this Fetish.com member met her boyfriend at high school, he turned out to be an infantilist with an adult diaper fetish. And although she took part in age play scenarios and adult baby games
In our first instalment, we met Brendan and his fetish for pegging and strap-ons. After his first date ended in disaster, what will happen when he heads back online looking to fulfil his femdom
New York-based Brendan had just landed a new job and has a strap-on and pegging fantasy. As he negotiates his new life and attempts the dating scene, will his potential partners be able to accept his
Using a whole variety of techniques, PUAs or Pick Up Artists, turn seducing women into an art form. If you fancy yourself as a pick up artist, here are a few tips to get you
Being a male slut sounds like a dream for most male kinksters, but is the reality as horny as it sounds? One Fetish.com member opens up his dirty diary from the past to tell us about his naughty days
Never had a sissy maid before? Neither had Fetish.com member Claire. After finding one online, her emotions ran from shock and horror to delight and enthusiasm. Indeed, she quickly learned to enjoy
When this kinky, latex bodysuit loving Fetish.com member got the chance to live out of his latex wrestling fantasy, the superhero roleplay ending up taking an unexpected turn and he got the surprise