Where to start. I suppose with Hi.....

I'm quite new to BDSM but with a pervious girlfriend we experimented with a few things and the more I tried it, the more I liked it. However there was many things I wanted to try but the ex didn't fancy it so I'm looking for someone who can take me to the next level.

After splitting with the ex I visited a local swingers club a few times (on the recommendation of a mate) but it just my scene and the few people I did met through there weren't into the same things as me which is how I ended up on here after hearing about it from the owner of the club.

I've tried both being the dom and the sub and I like both for different reasons however I liked being the dom more but there is something erotic about being blindfolded, tied up and having somebody teasing without the ability to move or know what's coming next.

I'm going to be honest and say I'm not on here to find a new girlfriend, I'm here to explore my darker side with somebody. However if that does turn into something more then that's fine with me.

Well I hope I've given you a small incite into why I'm here and if you want to know more then feel free to ask.

Desires and Fantasies
I have a few fantasies I would love to try out and do. Hopefully i can find someone that shares then and will like to try them out.