Im a single male new to the area from TX. I marked myself as hetero, but really it would be more accurate to say sapiosexual. I really only become attracted to men through friendship, so while I am down for some experimentation, im not interested enough to deal with a flood of dick pics.
Ive been in and around the scene for longer than my adult life, I think in total about 24 years. Im technically a switch, but I am primarily a Dom, and I don't ever sub to men.
I am not inherently attracted to trans ladies, but I have enjoyed some casual and fwb with them, it just takes a special personality and connection.
I am poly/ENM and experimenting.
I am looking for friends, networking, short term, long term, casual, etc. Mostly just wanting to meet local people with whom I get along.
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Q1) all relationships evolve and grow, just as people do. That does not garuntee that such growth is immediately visible, however.
Q2) Illusory control is inherently more powerful because it depends on the mind and the imagination of the subject, and by and large, their imagination will outstrip Read more… reality every time. Technically, that depends on the person, but I've found it true for the majority.
Q3) You can understand a role academically and theoretically, which will get you pretty far, and increase the odds for accuracy, but I don't believe a certainty can be achieved, especially considering that roles change slightly based on the personalities involved.