For me, submission is very much about letting go and being able to quieten my head through their satisfaction and pleasure. I am very very high functioning and work an extremely high pressure job and as a switch that means it's like being able to choose a persona for the situation. At work, my Read more… dominant side is at the reigns - taking control and commanding my floor, but when I get home my submission to takes over, where I don't need to think about a million different things - just how I can best please them, fulfill their wishes and be useful. I find that my brain quitens down and I can let go of my stresses.