Earning her submission

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[Go****]

There’s a lot of different types of people and I don’t think it’s anywhere nearly as simple as “when a sub sees you she wants to submit to you”

However you’re p** t about bending to a subs whims is a very important thing. Do that and you’re taking Ina submissive stance, and that might tank the whole seduction.

Truly being a dominant person, which has to do with a whole hell of a lot more than BDSM, is a whole other frame.

A real dominant person isn’t hurting for people to rush to submit to them. That’s actually a sign of mental weakness; you the fake alpha persona do that often.

A real dominant person qualifies people into their experience and has no interest to rush, and even if people throw themselves their way they are cool and collected about it; not in a rush for some kind of superficial power exchange.

Why on earth would anyone want to just submit to a stranger because they call themselves a dominant? And why o earth would anyone truly dominant person want that type of low quality engagement?

Reducing interactions in the BDSM world to such rudimentary metrics as merely Dom and Sub is foolish in my opinion.

People have a lot of other dimensions to them, and meeting people as sovereign individuals before assuming some kind of power dynamic is both extremely seductive & sexy, as well as a Greta way to filter out low quality experiences

My two cents in the matter at least.

[la****]

That’s an excellent way to put it. Very thoughtful and articulate. Thank you for sharing that.