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Vote for FET at the SXMA Awards — and Here’s Why It Matters

Last year, we set out to do something that doesn’t get talked about enough in kink spaces: make BDSM education genuinely useful for people who are

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Knk Explained by FET: What a Year of Kink Education on Instagram Taught Us

From 1,000 to 11,500 followers in twelve months — FET's Instagram education series on BDSM grew not through virality, but by being genuinely useful

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FET Wins Best Fetish App & Website at the UK Fetish Awards 2025

FET has been awarded Best Fetish App & Website at the UK Fetish Awards 2025. This win marks a major milestone for FET’s 400,000-strong global

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Bring the BDSM scene to your screen with the latest news from the kink community incl. features on the best fetish parties and BDSM clubs.

Dirty Fetish and Forbidden Play

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What is it about a dirty fetish that attracts and excites so many people? Mentioning urinating on a submissive to the right person, and they melt. Writer Sienna Saint-Cyr explores how taboos have

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The People You Meet in Your Local Kink Community

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What kind of people might you find in your local kink community? Ever wondered what goes on at a munch? We explain what you can expect to find when you start exploring.
 
The one piece

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Being outed as kinky in the vanilla world

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Being outed as kinky is something that many folks fear. Fetish.com Sienna Saint-Cyr shares a hilarious but also nerve-wrecking true story.
 
Even though I’m public about my lifestyle, I

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How To Be Kinky In Public and What You Can Get Away With

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Whether you want to exert your Dominance or feel more submissive, there are plenty of ways to indulge in public kink - without being caught! Writer Kayla Lords offers six hot ideas on how to be kinky

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Why Kink is Good for You: Unexpected BDSM Benefits

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Those tricks you learn inside the bedroom - or dungeon - can transform your life. We take a look at four BDSM benefits and what they do for you.
 
We’re far from done with social stigma

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Why You Should Drop Your Sexual Stereotypes

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The fetish scene is full of sexual stereotypes, but there are more than one ways to do BDSM. Writer Kayla Lords debunks five far too common and annoying myths, all while providing you with some

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The BDSM Dominant clock: What Time of Dom Are You?

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No, that's not a typo: the clock system is an excellent way of gauging how BDSM dominant your dom or domme is, explains writer Sienna Saint-Cyr.

 
When I first admitted to my Dom

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Feminization Humiliation: So You Wanna Be My Gurl?

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Do you get off on turning your guy into a gurl? Writer Sienna Saint-Cyr explores the beauty and power of feminization humiliation.
 

When I was younger, I had no issues at all with

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Am I being a good dom?

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It can be tough being a good dom, living up to the fantasy and truly satisfying your sub. We take a look at what it means to be a bad dom and how to avoid it.
 
Have you ever wondered

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Advanced Bondage Techniques ​|​ A Passion for Rope Play

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Many people in the BDSM community have a lifelong fascination with rope bondage. But how do you get into rope play, and what can you expect? Writer Stella Harris takes a look.
 
I often

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Wolves in Sheep's Clothing | Spotting An Abusive Dominant in the Kink Scene

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In the kink scene, there’s a tendency to give other kinksters the benefit of the doubt. We’re all used to being outsiders, and once we find a community, there’s an implicit trust that sometimes

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Sex-Critical Feminist Submission: Can You Be A Submissive Feminist?

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For every one of us who wants to celebrate kink and BDSM as empowering examples of free self-expression, you’ll find several others who think of it as being a perversion of healthy sexuality. How can

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5 Things to Expect at Your First Fetish Party

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Attending your first fetish party can be nerve wrecking - but a whole new world of kink fun awaits. Whether you're into leather, PVC, or latex or more - we show you what to

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The Best Kinky Places to Play in the US

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From the generous BDSM play spaces of the West Coast to the underground (sometimes literally) BDSM scene in the Northeast, the US has plenty of kinky places to play - whether you're new to the kink

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Fetish interviews | Becoming a Dominatrix

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How far would you go to make a career change? Alison*, a former New York dominatrix, talks dungeons, Doms and making BDSM pay. What was the story behind her becoming a

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Spice Up Your Sex Life | Taking Your BDSM Play Out of the Bedroom

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Be you a kinky single novice, an adventurous couple, or a skill seeking triad; there comes a time when you're ready to spice up your sex life and take it to public play parties. Writer Zoë Tersche

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Choosing the Right S&M Collar

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S&M collars are an integral part of the bondage and fetish scene - but different collars signify different stages in a BDSM relationship. Our guide helps you choose the right S&M collar for

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Fifty Shades of Grey: Kink Shaming or Mainstream Fetish?

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As Fifty Shades of Grey fandom hits fever pitch, self-confessed sub and kink writer Abi Brown takes a closer look at the fetish-themed flick. Questioning the film's stereotypes, ending, and portrayal

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Fifty Shades Reviewed | An Alternative Reading

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Like many, Abi Brown lost the will to live when she sat down to read E.L. James's much-maligned Fifty Shades of Grey. Here she explores the book's many issues.

 
What is Fifty Shades

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Reconciling BDSM and Religion

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On the surface of things, the fetish lifestyle/BDSM and religion wouldn't appear to go hand in hand. So how do you reconcile sex and religion? Writer Zoë Tersche posed this question to Alex, a New

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How Fetlife Might Be Scaring Off Vanillas

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FetLife is one of the most popular kinky dating sites available. But is its emphasis on porn alienating members, asks Zoe Tersche.
 
Millions of members
FetLife is a bottomless

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How to Throw a BDSM Play Party That Rocks

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So, you’ve decided to throw a BDSM play party. But, before you get down and dirty, there’s a lot to consider if you want it to be a hit: inviting the right people, ensuring they know the rules,

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UK Porn Ban | Here's What You Need to Know

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With the UK porn law changing, specific sexual acts are no longer permitted in UK-produced porno films. With the banned list including verbal abuse, piss play, humiliation and fisting, how will this

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Robots? Aliens? Monsters? You've Got a Science Fiction Fetish

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Did you watch Star Wars or Alien and ended up getting turned on by the costumes and aliens? Then you may just have a science fiction fetish! With the cosplay scene growing fast, the interest in

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How to Get (Your Feet) Wet in the Fetish Scene, Part II: Munches

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Navigating the fetish scene in your local area isn't always easy, but luckily you have munches to help guide the (wicked) way. So, if you're just dipping your toes in the fetish and kink scene,

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