Fetish and BDSM have found themselves a place in pop culture - with the ‘best seller’ books and film series ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’. Apparently it’s now trendy to have a ‘fetish’. A newcomer jumping
Halloween is a big night for kinksters. But why do they love it so much? Writer Kayla Lords investigates all the great things about celebrating a kinky Halloween.
Imagine my surprise
There are many reasons why kinksters may stay in the kink closet instead of being open about being part of the BDSM lifestyle. Writer Kayla Lords takes a look at some of the consequences of being
What does it mean to be a kinkster, what you should do, and what you shouldn’t do? Writer Kayla Lords busts the top five myths about BDSM rules and kinky sex.
There are very few BDSM
Wearing a historical roleplay costume in the bedroom is nothing new, but maybe there's a back story you didn't know about. We delve into the underskirts of three kinky roleplay
What is it about a dirty fetish that attracts and excites so many people? Mentioning urinating on a submissive to the right person, and they melt. Writer Sienna Saint-Cyr explores how taboos have
What kind of people might you find in your local kink community? Ever wondered what goes on at a munch? We explain what you can expect to find when you start exploring.
The one piece
Being outed as kinky is something that many folks fear. Fetish.com Sienna Saint-Cyr shares a hilarious but also nerve-wrecking true story.
Even though I’m public about my lifestyle, I
Whether you want to exert your Dominance or feel more submissive, there are plenty of ways to indulge in public kink - without being caught! Writer Kayla Lords offers six hot ideas on how to be kinky
Those tricks you learn inside the bedroom - or dungeon - can transform your life. We take a look at four BDSM benefits and what they do for you.
We’re far from done with social stigma
The fetish scene is full of sexual stereotypes, but there are more than one ways to do BDSM. Writer Kayla Lords debunks five far too common and annoying myths, all while providing you with some
No, that's not a typo: the clock system is an excellent way of gauging how BDSM dominant your dom or domme is, explains writer Sienna Saint-Cyr.
When I first admitted to my Dom
Do you get off on turning your guy into a gurl? Writer Sienna Saint-Cyr explores the beauty and power of feminization humiliation.
When I was younger, I had no issues at all with
It can be tough being a good dom, living up to the fantasy and truly satisfying your sub. We take a look at what it means to be a bad dom and how to avoid it.
Have you ever wondered
Many people in the BDSM community have a lifelong fascination with rope bondage. But how do you get into rope play, and what can you expect? Writer Stella Harris takes a look.
I often
In the kink scene, there’s a tendency to give other kinksters the benefit of the doubt. We’re all used to being outsiders, and once we find a community, there’s an implicit trust that sometimes
For every one of us who wants to celebrate kink and BDSM as empowering examples of free self-expression, you’ll find several others who think of it as being a perversion of healthy sexuality. How can
Attending your first fetish party can be nerve wrecking - but a whole new world of kink fun awaits. Whether you're into leather, PVC, or latex or more - we show you what to
From the generous BDSM play spaces of the West Coast to the underground (sometimes literally) BDSM scene in the Northeast, the US has plenty of kinky places to play - whether you're new to the kink
How far would you go to make a career change? Alison*, a former New York dominatrix, talks dungeons, Doms and making BDSM pay. What was the story behind her becoming a
Be you a kinky single novice, an adventurous couple, or a skill seeking triad; there comes a time when you're ready to spice up your sex life and take it to public play parties. Writer Zoë Tersche
S&M collars are an integral part of the bondage and fetish scene - but different collars signify different stages in a BDSM relationship. Our guide helps you choose the right S&M collar for
As Fifty Shades of Grey fandom hits fever pitch, self-confessed sub and kink writer Abi Brown takes a closer look at the fetish-themed flick. Questioning the film's stereotypes, ending, and portrayal
Like many, Abi Brown lost the will to live when she sat down to read E.L. James's much-maligned Fifty Shades of Grey. Here she explores the book's many issues.
What is Fifty Shades
On the surface of things, the fetish lifestyle/BDSM and religion wouldn't appear to go hand in hand. So how do you reconcile sex and religion? Writer Zoë Tersche posed this question to Alex, a New