No, that's not a typo: the clock system is an excellent way of gauging how BDSM dominant your dom or domme is, explains writer Sienna Saint-Cyr.
When I first admitted to my Dom
Do you get off on turning your guy into a gurl? Writer Sienna Saint-Cyr explores the beauty and power of feminization humiliation.
When I was younger, I had no issues at all with
It can be tough being a good dom, living up to the fantasy and truly satisfying your sub. We take a look at what it means to be a bad dom and how to avoid it.
Have you ever wondered
Many people in the BDSM community have a lifelong fascination with rope bondage. But how do you get into rope play, and what can you expect? Writer Stella Harris takes a look.
I often
In the kink scene, there’s a tendency to give other kinksters the benefit of the doubt. We’re all used to being outsiders, and once we find a community, there’s an implicit trust that sometimes
For every one of us who wants to celebrate kink and BDSM as empowering examples of free self-expression, you’ll find several others who think of it as being a perversion of healthy sexuality. How can
Attending your first fetish party can be nerve wrecking - but a whole new world of kink fun awaits. Whether you're into leather, PVC, or latex or more - we show you what to
From the generous BDSM play spaces of the West Coast to the underground (sometimes literally) BDSM scene in the Northeast, the US has plenty of kinky places to play - whether you're new to the kink
How far would you go to make a career change? Alison*, a former New York dominatrix, talks dungeons, Doms and making BDSM pay. What was the story behind her becoming a
Be you a kinky single novice, an adventurous couple, or a skill seeking triad; there comes a time when you're ready to spice up your sex life and take it to public play parties. Writer Zoë Tersche
S&M collars are an integral part of the bondage and fetish scene - but different collars signify different stages in a BDSM relationship. Our guide helps you choose the right S&M collar for
As Fifty Shades of Grey fandom hits fever pitch, self-confessed sub and kink writer Abi Brown takes a closer look at the fetish-themed flick. Questioning the film's stereotypes, ending, and portrayal
Like many, Abi Brown lost the will to live when she sat down to read E.L. James's much-maligned Fifty Shades of Grey. Here she explores the book's many issues.
What is Fifty Shades
On the surface of things, the fetish lifestyle/BDSM and religion wouldn't appear to go hand in hand. So how do you reconcile sex and religion? Writer Zoë Tersche posed this question to Alex, a New
FetLife is one of the most popular kinky dating sites available. But is its emphasis on porn alienating members, asks Zoe Tersche.
Millions of members
FetLife is a bottomless
So, you’ve decided to throw a BDSM play party. But, before you get down and dirty, there’s a lot to consider if you want it to be a hit: inviting the right people, ensuring they know the rules,
With the UK porn law changing, specific sexual acts are no longer permitted in UK-produced porno films. With the banned list including verbal abuse, piss play, humiliation and fisting, how will this
Did you watch Star Wars or Alien and ended up getting turned on by the costumes and aliens? Then you may just have a science fiction fetish! With the cosplay scene growing fast, the interest in
Navigating the fetish scene in your local area isn't always easy, but luckily you have munches to help guide the (wicked) way. So, if you're just dipping your toes in the fetish and kink scene,
Navigating the fetish scene in your local city or town isn't always easy, but luckily you have munches to help guide the (wicked) way. So, if you're new to the scene thinking of attending your first
From Marlene Dietrich to Boy George to RuPaul, the worlds of film and music have provided some true gender-bending icons over the years. Here, then, are our top 10 androgynous and cross-dressing
Whether you're a newcomer to the kink scene or a seasoned player, attending a BDSM festival is one of the most thrilling ways to explore your desires and connect with like-minded people. These kinky
Fetish is timeless. Every decade has its own fetish icon and periods which have their individual elements of kink. To celebrate fetish through the ages, We take a look at fetish history from the
The fetish and kink scene can sometimes feel like we're simply enjoying ourselves. But according to this Fetish.com member, politics is deeply entwined in the fetish scene, from the legalities of
Kinky fetishes are fun, and an increasing number of people are finding out that it can also be incredibly daring and exciting. So, for those just starting out, we introduce the most common fetishes