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Gender Woman
Age 39
Status Single
Height 161cm
Weight 58kg
Body shape Slim
Eye colour Brown
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Middle
Orientation Bisexual
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin UK
Body hair None
Zodiac sign Aquarius
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings

About me

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Description

PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE without
reading profile .. kinky meets/NSA/ONS are not of interest or those in relationships. Messages suggesting, assuming or detailing sexual acts/ assuming profelicts are not welcome including dik pics . Daddy is also a hard limit

I describe myself as a lifestyle sub. Suited to the structure and guidance of a Dom/sub dynamic both outside and inside of bedroom.
I can be provocative, take scenic route to good girl (some would use brat.. not a fan of term)

I am still learning and exploring this journey after end of first dynamic back in April. Looking for potential connections to perhaps develop into dynamic. With experienced and lifestyle doms, who understand the trust, respect and communication must be the priority foundations

Limits

Water sports
Scat
CNC
Extreme impact play
Daddy/ little girl

My roles & archetype

My kinks & fetishes

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Msfergz
icon-wio Msfergz wrote something in the forum
  • 20.04.2024 19:03:42
  • Female (39)
  • Up Sydling
  • Single
Who believes this is a hookup site?

Just caught up on the comments, and seems I wasn't clear enough . I never said everyone thinks am fair game just the assumption. However for the comment "fetish site, so makes all about sex" "naive " is what I assumed this topic was created for and people's opinion, not a narrative of trying to Read more… control others
I am not of a mindset this lifestyle is about sex, a tool of a dynamic but not the objective .
While you reserve the right of your opinion that it is about sex, and many others. I would read a profile and see this and respect this, regardless of it being what ever site
When it's clearly stated on mine not to "hit me up " (as wording used) I also deserve that same respect and it's not ok when that line is crossed. That's not naive, nor is it someone else afraid to step out of comfort zone. It's being respectful

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Msfergz
icon-wio Msfergz wrote something in the forum
  • 18.04.2024 2:33:33
  • Female (39)
  • Up Sydling
  • Single
Info

Also nothing beats connecting with community face to face, local events or chat rooms

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Msfergz
icon-wio Msfergz wrote something in the forum
  • 18.04.2024 2:31:21
  • Female (39)
  • Up Sydling
  • Single
Info

Submissive guide podcast

Msfergz
icon-wio Msfergz wrote something in the forum
  • 18.04.2024 2:27:29
  • Female (39)
  • Up Sydling
  • Single
So you want to start a D/s journey

A really great topic, I was lucky enough to have a mentor when I started my journey. An experienced sub, while not same type, her advice and guidance was invaluable to the emotional journey. I am no where near an expert but I have replicated this support with others as newbies
I really want to Read more… create a mentor community for both new subs and doms to match with experienced ones to support journeys

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Msfergz
icon-wio Msfergz wrote something in the forum
  • 16.04.2024 2:45:42
  • Female (39)
  • Up Sydling
  • Single
Tricks to vet a Dom

Such a complex topic, I think as their isn't a tick list for a Dom (and shouldn't be) not all vetting fits all. You may need to define what you see as a Dom personally, we all likely have differences here. Some may not like doms using honorifcs straight away, or being demanding, while others Read more… don't
Once done that clearly state on profile. Then biggest red flag is likely if that's ignored . From my interactions, anyone who approaches me with sexual intentions immediately, shows lack of control like becoming defensive or worse abusive, who adapts their likes and limits based on yours, pushes for meet I wouldn't likely continue
As most have said, safety is paramount so don't be afraid to chat for what ever timeline you need, ask questions , verify. Make sure someone knows where you are if do meet and have a plan to exit if necessary

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Msfergz
icon-wio Msfergz has updated their profile description
  • 14.04.2024 6:58:30
  • Female (39)
  • Up Sydling
  • Single
PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE without
reading profile .. kinky meets/NSA/ONS are not of interest or those in relationships. Messages suggesting, assuming or detailing sexual acts/ assuming profelicts are not welcome including dik pics . Daddy is also a hard limit

I describe myself as a lifestyle sub. Read more… Suited to the structure and guidance of a Dom/sub dynamic both outside and inside of bedroom.
I can be provocative, take scenic route to good girl (some would use brat.. not a fan of term)

I am still learning and exploring this journey after end of first dynamic back in April. Looking for potential connections to perhaps develop into dynamic. With experienced and lifestyle doms, who understand the trust, respect and communication must be the priority foundations
Msfergz
icon-wio Msfergz finished the BDSM Test
  • 03.04.2024 23:43:32
  • Female (39)
  • Up Sydling
  • Single

0%
Dominant

95%
Submissive

Msfergz
icon-wio Msfergz wrote something in the forum
  • 27.03.2024 4:49:36
  • Female (39)
  • Up Sydling
  • Single
"Not dominant enough"... What does that even mean?

Or dominant enough is personal preference... Like saying not tall enough, pretty enough, funny enough. Doesn't mean your not xx for the right person. If we where to be the perfect type for everyone.... Wouldn't that be easy
However I am surprised at use of word rape... ? It's the legal word for Read more… non consent actions. Same then could be said for describing impact play as assault.
Surely a line needs to be drawn

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Msfergz
icon-wio Msfergz finished the BDSM Test
  • 14.03.2024 3:08:00
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Submissive

Msfergz
icon-wio Msfergz wrote something in the forum
  • 14.03.2024 3:05:23
  • Female (39)
  • Up Sydling
  • Single
Dom but not really?

I am so glad you brought this up, this is one of my consistent conversations .. what tick list of attributes, skills, experiences meets label of a Dom, how does that also align with expectations multiple subs types and their opinion of what a Dom should be.
While slightly off topic to your Read more… frustration in self proclaimed labels.
My Personal opinion is a need for change of terminology. I am not keen on labels but perhaps defining more the ambiguous term of sub or dom would actually be helpful
For example
Do you consider self Dom or sub because like/want BDSM sex ... Xxxx type
Do you label self as Dom or sub because your into the bigger picture and part of lifestyle outside of bedroom too
Are you fully into sub/Dom 24/7 so are xxxx
Into switching so xxxx version of a Dom

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Msfergz
icon-wio Msfergz wrote something in the forum
  • 13.03.2024 4:40:51
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  • Single
Who believes this is a hookup site?

Is it just me or has others found some of these replies worrying. I don't remember signing up to a hook up site, and automatically being fair game and assumption of hooking up. Is it 2024 and a time when we can dare to connect with other like minded people without judgement or assumptions of Read more… anything else. I debate it's not the site but perhaps mindset of some that may have misunderstood the objective of this community.

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Msfergz
icon-wio Msfergz has bought a Premium-membership!
  • 13.03.2024 4:19:14
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Msfergz
icon-wio Msfergz created a topic in SOS Technical Stuff
Chat room etiquette
I have recently seen some posts that I have found unsettling, not in an inappropriate sense but more feeling this person is in a challenging place and perhaps needs someone to just reach out to talk too. Or told to mind own business. I believe doing the former is required even if told to xxx off. Read more…But in the world of virtual chat rooms, what is the best way... Does FET have a policy for well-being and is monitored as other messages or as worried other users a way to highlight if take responsibility.
LikeRoigEsteldeLlevant · 1 Reply
FETMOD-ET
FETMOD-ET If you are concerned about a person's well being, my thoughts are to contact support or write to a moderator or anyone on the team. as we can look into anything that looks to cause worry.
What we would do, is that we would contact the member or pass it on to management.
Never try to approach the Read more… person you may have concerns about. Sometimes you think you are doing a good thing but it could potentially be something that could turn bad. Last thing we want is a member with heart intentional meaning feel awful if something happened to that member they were concerned about.
So if you come accross any posts that look concerning please contact one of our team and we will look into it. Please also state members name and screen shot also.
I hope this helps
Kind regards
FETMOD-ET
LikeStrictMaster44 · 07.03.2024 12:41:13
Msfergz
icon-wio Msfergz wrote something in the forum
  • 06.03.2024 14:52:54
  • Female (39)
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  • Single
Turn offs!

Well tonight I received as a first message you remind me of my whxxe of a mother or something along those lines. So that now is top of turn offs... Reminded of mother

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