where to start, 🤔
been in and out of kink for around 20 years, i have been on both sides of the coin, as a sub I learnt how to be dominant, and vice versa. I am an individual that enjoys watching a sub grow as a person, and giving that encouragement and time to grow, but do not mistake this as being lenient, I am not, there is a dark side to me and I enjoy letting him out of the bag when needed. my style is one of nurture, understanding and encouragement along with discipline, without discipline there is no rule. I guess there is a taboo kink there, looking for like minded who enjoy role play.
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Reading this, along with the replies, would you not say that this is gut instinct? I'm sure we have all been there at one time or another where out head is saying one thing and our gut is in polar opposite, then we wrestle with our head rationalising everything and our gut telling us this feel Read more… right etc. personally speaking my gut instinct has very rarely let me down.
