So what's this Daddy's little girl kink all about? I’ve stumbled across a lot of misconceptions regarding the DDlg lifestyle. I’m here going to list some of them and explain why they are WRONG. And why this hate is no better than hate for any other sexual orientation.
And I’m going to explain. DDlg is a relationship between two consensual adults. It has nothing to do with actual kids. Now, of course, there are rotten eggs in every community and there are gonna exist hidden pedophiliacs in this scene as well. The trick is not to let the idea take over what is actually real.
My relationship is extremely loving and my Daddy takes care of me. Just because I sometimes am a little, i.e. regress mentally. Does not mean he is taking advantage of me. I am an adult and can think of my own. I can say no when needed. Also, I don’t take shit and I speak my mind. Abusive relationships exist everywhere.
As I said, there are rotten eggs everywhere. The point of DDlg is not that the DD is acting like the lg’s real dad. In fact, I’ve started calling my actual dad ”father” just because it feels weird when I have the same name for someone that is my role model in life and the other who is my fiancé and lover. I DO NOT, I repeat, I DO NOT get turned on by the thought of incestual activities. This is merely a game. A sort of dynamic between me and my fiancé that happens to work for us. The role play, and please notice; the role play is just to let my inner child out and to let my Daddy’s dominant yet nurturing side out. There are in fact plenty of DDlg relationships that are completely sexless.
For those unfamiliar with fetishes and BDSM, remember that discrimination is based on fear. Be bigger than your fears. I have gone through hell several times. Guys who look a specific way are often triggers for me. That still does not give me the right to discriminate them, hate them or even be afraid of them. I understand that I am triggered, the problem is with me.
We all need to learn how to separate our personal scars that cause triggers from real problems. I’ve stumbled across anti-DDlg pages several times. I’m sure there are such sites for all fetishes and it makes me sad that there is so much hate out there. A lot of people feel offended by our choice of lifestyle but remember fellow kinksters out there: we live our life for ourselves not to please anyone else.
Princess E is a Swedish freelancer who focuses on DDlg, which she's living 24/7. Most of her writings are based on her experiences with her Daddy. Mr. B. Runs a blog and can be found on Twitter @meandmrb1
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