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Female Sounding: Open Up to a Hole New Kink!

Do you like the sound of sounding? Urethral sounding is often associated with penis play, but if you have a vulva, you can also enjoy it. Wanna know

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Molly's BDSM tips | Why You Shouldn't Be Drunk During A BDSM Play Session

A glass of wine never hurts... or does it? This time our BDSM advice guru Molly explains why it is particularly important to remain sober and fully

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Omorashi: worth the wait? Exploring pee desperation kink!

Victoria Blisse explores the fetish of omorashi and finds out why so many kinksters are desperate to try pee desperation! Discover more about the

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Our Guide to Fisting: Doing it Right 

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Have you been fascinated by fisting but worried it might be a finger too far? Not sure where or how to start, but want to get handy with it? Then this is the guide for you. For anal April, we asked

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History of the Dominatrix | Where did Femdom Come From?

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The Dominatrix is one of the most recognisable icons of the BDSM world. But where did these take-charge women come from? Writer Leo Larkin takes a look at the history of the Dominatrix.

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Molly’s BDSM Tips | How Should a Domme Dress?

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What kind of image comes to mind when thinking of a female Dominant? All latex, high heels and a whip? Well, out there in the wider world, many hold these kinds of preconceived ideas about how a

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How to Open Up to a Partner About Wearing Women's Panties

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Our resident BDSM advice guru returns with some top tips for one FET member looking for ways to tell his partner about his kink for wearing women's panties. Read on to find out what our Molly

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WAM! Get Wet and Messy with Our Guide to Sploshing

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For some people, getting covered in mud while playing sports is annoying. But, some kinksters take this to a whole new level and love to get wet and messy all on purpose! Sounds like fun? Maybe wet

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Ask a ProDomme | What Are the Most Common Fetishes?

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International Fetish Day takes place every third Friday in January, but this year we're celebrating fetishes all month! To kick us off, writer Zoë Tersche asked a former New York-based ProDomme what

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Molly's BDSM Tips on Domestic Discipline

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Our resident BDSM advice guru is back with some tips for one FET member looking for ideas on the subject of domestic discipline. Read on to find out what our Molly suggests.
 
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How to Give Yourself BDSM Aftercare

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Aftercare is an incredibly important part of any BDSM scene and everyone requires a slightly different kind of BDSM aftercare and amount of it. But what can you do if your Dominant isn’t able to give

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How BDSM Can Help Overcome Trauma

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Healing trauma takes many forms. People can overcome emotional distress in their own way, with common methods including talking to a therapist or mental health expert, taking medication, practising

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Molly's BDSM Tips | Making it as a Professional Mistress

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This week our kinky advice guru Molly gives some advice to one FET member who, after being a Mistress on the side, now wants to turn her passion into her profession. But as a single mum, what does

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Understanding Your BDSM limits | A Beginner's Guide

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'What are your limits?' is a question regularly asked within the kink scene. While it sounds quite simple, if you're new to BDSM, how do you know what your BDSM limits are? How do you work out what

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Using Pressure Points in BDSM Play

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Have you heard of pressure points? Often you hear them talked about as things to avoid, but pressure points on the body can be used for fun BDSM play when you know how - even in the no-hit zone

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Should We Stop Exploring BDSM Because of Past Hurt?

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What happens when past emotional issues are brought to the fore from indulging in BDSM play? Our kinky advice guru Molly shares her thoughts with one FET couple who, after exploring BDSM, are having

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Molly’s BDSM Tips | How to Find a Pro Domme

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Finding a Pro Domme or professional Mistress may sound straightforward enough, but there’s more to it than only doing a Google search. What do you need to consider, and how do you go about

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Our Guide to BDSM Chastity

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We turn masturbation month on its head and aim our gaze at BDSM chastity. If you're new to chastity or want to explore more about orgasm denial, kinky author M. Christian gives you the lowdown

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Molly’s BDSM Tips | Should a Dominant Dictate to their Sub?

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Does being in a D/s relationship allow a Dominant to prohibit certain things for their sub? While the answer may seem straightforward enough, our BDSM advice columnist Molly gives some sage advice to

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Watersports | A Quick Guide to Golden Showers and Piss Play

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Wanna get down and dirty with piss play? We encourage all of that, but just how dirty is watersports? We asked Victoria Blisse to serve up this quick and easy guide to having the fun you're bursting

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How to Know When BDSM Fantasies Violate Consent

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We all have kinky thoughts and fantasies, but when does a personal BDSM fantasy become a consent violation? Why is it wrong to objectify women and other genders? We all want to be sex-positive and

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Molly's BDSM Tips | What is Ethical Non-Monogamy?

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If you've never come across the terms 'ethical non-monogamy' or 'nesting partner', fear not, our Molly returns to help out one confused member on understanding the notion of a 'nesting partner' and

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Molly's BDSM Tips | How to Talk About Your Pubic Hair Fetish

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We all know there's nothing wrong with having a fetish for pubic hair. But in a world where many people shave their pubes, how do you go about telling a potential partner that you'd like them to keep

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Molly's BDSM Tips for Your First Pegging Experience

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Ever wanted to give pegging a try and not known where to begin? This week our BDSM advice columnist Molly gives one of our members some tips on how to go about it for the first time - from choosing a

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Molly's BDSM Tips | How Can I Join the Mile-High Club?

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Many of us enjoy the thrill of doing something taboo along with the risk of being discovered. But what if the fun involves kink on a plane? Our Molly tackles a question from one Fetish.com member who

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Molly's BDSM Tips | How to Achieve Kink on a Budget

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A lot of BDSM equipment and kink toys can be pricey, but what if you want to fill up your kinky stash of playthings and are on a tight budget? Our Molly helps out one kinky couple with some advice on

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Molly's BDSM Tips | How Do I Reveal My Headscissor Fetish? 


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Revealing a kink or fetish to a partner can be tricky, especially if you’re unsure on how to approach that convo. This week, our BDSM guru Molly serves up some useful advice to one member with a

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Blood Play & Vampirism | A Kinksters Guide

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Of all bodily fluids, blood evokes the strongest reactions. For many people, responses are made up of fear, disgust or distress but, for some, fascination and a profound excitement. Considered one of

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