About me
Description
Vaguely switchy but currently very sub-leaning. Love a nuanced, intelligent domme (sapiosexual) who can be psychologically manipulative, but it's not easy to do with me. Currently open to most types of arrangements, longterm or short term / NSA.
Educated, tall, in-shape, not hideous I hope, BWC.
I have a huge (huge) weakness for body worship and love giving extended oral sessions. Current longest is 6 hours but I will literally go until I'm stopped, and I don't need reciprocation. Can be as part of a relationship or as a one-off.
Otherwise, I love film, **s and my head is full of the most useless knowledge imaginable, so if you like sharing weird facts then I'll likely be quite fond of you.
I can't see crushes - send me a msg*
Limits
Can't see myself getting into ball-busting
Otherwise pretty open to trying most things once
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
Wanna know what interests me?:
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Otherwise pretty open to trying most things once
Educated, tall, in-shape, not hideous I hope, Read more… BWC.
I have a huge (huge) weakness for body worship and love giving extended oral sessions. Current longest is 6 hours but I will literally go until I'm stopped, and I don't need reciprocation. Can be as part of a relationship or as a one-off.
Otherwise, I love film, **s and my head is full of the most useless knowledge imaginable, so if you like sharing weird facts then I'll likely be quite fond of you.
I can't see crushes - send me a msg*
Could be a sign that you're taking too much on and need a decent holiday tbh, but you may find a therapist helps also. In the context of this community, I'm sure you could likely exorcise some of those feelings via a kink. If you do, the important thing, as always, is to be safe about it, don't let Read more… anybody take advantage of your urge (don't get so desperate that you abandon caution) and go about it with someone you can trust.
If you're paying for that dungeon and it keeps getting cancelled with no refund then you're being scammed
What a strange comment 😂. "If you're reading a book on anatomy, maybe you should never become a doctor at all."
All I can think of is either:
1) He's grossly misunderstood the kink and thinks he's meant to be "playing the cheat" rather than actively involve you. In which case, another frank conversation is required.
2) He's embarrassed, shy or self-conscious about it and is uncomfortable with letting his Read more… partner read flirty messages with other women because he still thinks you may get upset
3) He's actually just cheating. But idk why he needs to if his partner literally finds it hot to see him with another woman. I can't get my head around that.
Rule #1: Never ever send anybody *** you've never met. Ever. Romance scams are absolutely rife in the BDSM community. From the male perspective, you're almost more likely to be speaking with a scammer than someone legit atp. If they ask for ***, you block and move on. If they ask you to book a Read more… dungeon that they give you the van details for, block and move on. Etc etc. Any variation of you parting with your ***, don't.
I think what a lot of people don't realise about sexuality is that fantasy doesn't always translate to reality; you may have obsessed about something for the longest time and then find you don't actually enjoy participating in it. But, you'll never know until you try. So, always approach with Read more… optimism but keep in mind that it's completely normal if it turns out to be underwhelming.
Educated, tall, in-shape and not hideous.
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