Not into big age gaps, so if you're old enough to be my dad or young enough for my son then sorry, that doesn't float my boat. Same applies for looks regardless on what age you put yourself as.
I've got to 40 and not even come close to finding someone who matches my needs and desires. I'm thinking they probably don't exist.
If I send "no thanks" on a message that does not mean bombard me with, "but... What... If..." If I have to say no twice please have the maturity to accept that. I mean come on guys, ffs. No means no!

Desires and Fantasies
Submissive. Otk spankings. Light bondage. Role play. Voyeur. Nothing hard-core or extreme. No choking, this is an absolute no, it gives me a panic attack. I have trust issues, men in previous relationships being complete asses. I have a big thing for beards and hairy chests. Just gimme a lumberjack already...