Comfortable in both roles, D/s, preferring not to be labelled rigidly, I'm happier letting moments and scenes flow naturally, enjoying what’s unfolding between those involved without alarms going off. If it feels right (or even feels quite wrong), and we’re enjoying it, that’s what matters.

I’m turned on by sensuality and style – sexy outfits, lingerie, latex, PVC, stockings, boots, heels (who I'm with wearing them - but never say never), toys, restraint and sensory play. I’m curious and open-minded, like exploring new ideas kinks, and experiences. Happy to try most things, or be made to try if I'm very submissive.

The mental side of BDSM is as powerful as the physical, apprehension and build up, imagination, tension, and connection building between people is incredibly exciting, not knowing what’s coming next, that shared energy and connection generates excitement.

I enjoy both sides of the power dynamic, being submissive is just as intoxicating as being dominant. Not submissive day-to-day, submitting to a strong, confident, powerful dom is incredible, giving up complete control, putting such a huge amount of trust in someone else’s hands is such a turn on, and almost uplifting. There’s something deeply attractive about a strong, confident person, who knows exactly what they want - and they're going to take it, someone direct, and who commands respect without trying.

In the dominant role, I’m calm and relaxed, balancing a level of respect for my sub, but with intention too, playfulness with firmness when it’s earned. There needs to be a good level of communication and chemistry, and consent always comes first. I’m attracted to submissive's and switches who understand trust, and respect that – knowing as a sub how exposed you are. A good connection, presence, knowing when to take control… and when to surprise.

The excitement of anticipation, the slow, quiet build up, and the playful use of restraints, toys, and accessories once trust is there. I enjoy a flexible approach, sometimes a scenario to play out, preferring not to be too rigid in my approach, enjoying the discovery of people, their kinks, and evolving together, learning, gently pushing edges, and seeing where chemistry leads.

My list of kinks would include: PVC, latex, leather, rubber, lingerie, stockings, thigh boots, classy heels, restraint, sensory deprivation, gags, hoods, clamps, oral - giving (love this), anal, pegging, sounding, spanking, and open to lots more.

I’m always happy to talk. If you’re curious or have questions, just ask.

I am not into poop, , fire, , mutilation, permanent marks, severe ***, or anything that needs one of the emergency services to rescue me.