Open minded to longer or short term, kinky mature, flexible on times, days and locations, happy to travel.
I am not into poop, , fire, , mutilation, permanent marks, severe ***, or anything that needs one of the emergency services to rescue me.
I imagine setting your professional Domme persona and your personal self separately, ideally different spaces, clothes and rituals, and having a format which ends/closes each session and switches off your professional self. Not so much an act, but a role that you enter into.
Whether you disclose Read more… what you do professionally to partners is a choice, if you do, explaining the differences and that you restrict real emotions and equality - this is a tough one.
Professional is about serving clients and what they need/require, personal is about serving yourself, with complete emotional involvement, with additional, genuine intimacy.
Have a routine/closure to sessions, a cool down, that switches off the professional you, and leaves her in your professional space/wardrobe.
As difficult as it is, set yourself boundaries with clients, don't get emotionally involved - easier said than done, I appreciate.
Nothing for nothing as they say.