Who am I ?
Heteroflexible Dom/Master/Owner with Sadistic, Tamer, Trainer, & Riger tendencies, yet Caregiver, Guide & Mentor.
I have a life time experience in many aspects of life which includes the BDSM world, and still very curious & continue exploring & learning. I am a straightforward and none apologetic. Well traveled, adventurous, explorer, curious, playful & very open minded.
My BDSM journey started in my mid-late *s, first as self experimenting, then as a sub/boy-toy to an elder Domme, who introduced me to the lifestyle & taught me a lot. Since then, my dominant character took over & through my journey, I educated myself, learned, grew, experimented & evolved as a Dom while breaking many taboos on the way, from mild to wild & soft to hard.
I consider every new connection as a new world to explore & learn, and patiently build relationships based on communication & trust. Although the destination is important, I truly believe that it is more about the journey & the path ways leading to the pinnacle.
Partnership status:
I’m in an Ethically None Monogamous marriage. While she has some kinks, she’s not into BDSM & not part of my journey. She knows, supports and encourages.
Why I’m here ?
I'm here to explore, learn, interact through discussions & comments, in an open, direct and honest conversation.
I’m also hear to engage in Dom/sub relationship/dynamics with feminine sub/slaves/pet women & transwomen.
While I rarely switch, I’m not looking for Domme/Mistresses.
Rules of engagement**:
Communication is fundamental & essential: be engaged, open, direct, straightforward, honest, true, effective, proactive, responsive & curious. I'm not in a rush, and take my time to explore and learn about my potential partner, so be patient yet consistent.
So, if you read so far, got intrigued and interested, introduce yourself in a message, and lets start the conversation.
Hard limits:
, Minors, Drawing , Anything illegal.
All the rest .... will be discussed.
Not long ago, people were meeting in person, and starting an in person exploration journey. While not all interactions ended in partnership, still it was interesting and intriguing. Then came the internet, which should have made it a bit easier, but turn to be a list of requirements and demands and Read more… short patience, which decreased the excitement of exploration. There is no 100% match, you connect, talk, negotiate and adjust. I would rather see a well written bio about who the person is and what they want, with few fundamental points, and let the exploration do the rest. I consider it as time invested, not as time wasted.
You are not wrong.
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Take all the time you need in order to feel safe and comfortable.
Having a partner in general, and in bdsm in particular, requires some level of connection in order to build trust and intimacy, even if it just for a short term play partner. Therefore discussing different aspect of life is very natural and acceptable. However, you don't have to disclose any Read more… information you feel not comfortable to disclose. In my opinion, the best way, is to be straightforward and say that you are not willing to disclose certain information you been asked about.
Nailed it. The 'About You' let others relate you and is the base to start the conversation.
If I may add :
1. If you interested in som
eone let them know by sending a message, don't just 'Like' or 'Crash'.
2. If you limit your DM with 'Send a Gift', you are not accessible. Most people, although Read more… have interest in you, won't send a gift.
3. If your 'Limits ' part says - no limits - it is worrisome, it show that you don't know yourself and youe are reckless. Everyone has limits.