Couple of things to start with:
I'm based in the Greater Toronto Area and traveling a lot around the globe. I will post on my wall my travel destination, if anyone would like to SOCIALZE over couple of drinks or lunch/diner, it would be great, if not, that's fine too.
** Although mentioned above, I'm not actively looking for immediate play. I'm here mainly to explore, learn, interact through discussions and comments, in an open, direct and honest conversation.. However, I won't say no to a real and honest connection should it happen.
Who am I?
Middle-aged guy in an ethically none monogamous (ENM) and open marriage. We are 22 years together.
Respectful, honest, hedonist, well traveled and lived in many countries, love adventures & exploration journeys in & out, curious, playful & very open minded, 420 friendly (in moderation).
I am a straightforward guy and none apologetic, if you don't like something about me, just move on or even block me.
Have a life time experience in many aspects of life and that include the kinks world and bdsm, but still I'm still very curious and continue exploring and learning. Although the destination is important, I don't believe in "quick fix", it is more about the journey and the path ways leading to the pinnacle.
One of the most important things I learned in my life, is that life is a one time experience, so, embrace it, explore it, enjoy it. And that moto led me in my vanilla life and especially in my sexual and kink journey.
As an adventurous and curious guy, I started a very wild sexual/kink journey in my late teens, and can say that I tried almost everything at least once. Along the way I learned that I'm polyamorous, that I am a Dominant person, and it reflects on my sexual life as well, although I enjoy very much to switch and take the sub role from time to time for the right Domme.
As I said, I'm here mainly to connect and interact with like minded kinksters. If something comes up, my preferences are, sex & kink positive playmates, Sub or Domme, for emotional, sensual, physical & kinky connections.
Soft limits:
Candle wax, Mild CBT, Sounding, E-Stim, Light Public Play, Breathing Play
Hard limits:
Findom, Children, Scat, Extreme Pain, Marks on Body, Animals, Blood, Full Public Activity, Needles
Having a partner in general, and in bdsm in particular, requires some level of connection in order to build trust and intimacy, even if it just for a short term play partner. Therefore discussing different aspect of life is very natural and acceptable. However, you don't have to disclose any Read more… information you feel not comfortable to disclose. In my opinion, the best way, is to be straightforward and say that you are not willing to disclose certain information you been asked about.
Nailed it. The 'About You' let others relate you and is the base to start the conversation.
If I may add :
1. If you interested in som
eone let them know by sending a message, don't just 'Like' or 'Crash'.
2. If you limit your DM with 'Send a Gift', you are not accessible. Most people, although Read more… have interest in you, won't send a gift.
3. If your 'Limits ' part says - no limits - it is worrisome, it show that you don't know yourself and youe are reckless. Everyone has limits.
It the general attitude that you expressed as the opening of your profile in capital letters (no offense just an observation).
Dom/sub relationship is a mutual fantasies fulfilling dynamics, each one contributing to the other fantasy. And I would say that a the dom/domme have more responsibility Read more… to cater to the sub fantasies.
Very interesting to read