I mean... Considering how much you've chatted, and how much time he has put in, to me means he was very interested. It's a shame that he just wasn't the one you were looking for, seems sexually he was all about taking. Doesn't sound to me you would of enjoyed the play with him. Sorry you've Read more… invested so much time into him. Him not being specific about what he was going to do... I mean it's really hard to judge, but I do that as well, just because once I tell someone the scenario I've got in my head, I'm kinda no longer interested in playing it out 😂 I've got a very good imagination - it's like it has already happened IRL haha... Or I just don't have an idea, but I'm passionate when I Dom, so I wouldn't really do anything crazy anyway, usually just trying to cross off as many of someone's kinks as possible. I really appreciate you mention this, I didn't realise that could be off putting, might need to write something down to copy and paste later haha 😂

Maybe post orgasm ***? So like set a timer on say X minutes, tie him up, and wank him for that duration despite when he cums and wether or not he gets soft, more fun for you seeing him struggle and maybe his brain will start lasting longer to avoid POT? Who knows who knows

Cockcage actually makes me cum faster, frequent fucking makes me last much much longer. Try ruining his orgasm and then playing with him after for a more immediate effect?