I am a mature, experienced Domme who has been in the lifestyle give or take about 10 years. I have found that communication and trust is the best foundation for any type of relationship within the lifestyle. I will be open and honest with you and actively participate in intelligent conversation and I expect the same of you. I am bisexual and poly, currently living with my boyfriend of 5 years who is submissive to me but Dominant, mostly identifies as a Rigger, to others.

NO men! I am looking for a female submissive/ slave who is ready to submit herself totally. Someone who can hold my interests, challenge me mentally a bit, and who is able to have and maintain a conversation. Someone who understands the aspects of the lifestyle are much deeper than just kinky sex and who is willing to open up to whatever possibilities may come. I have worked with new subs and experienced subs and don’t mind eaither, of any age, as long as you are an excellent communicator, honest, open, eager, and willing.

I will not demand or command your submission from the start because of the roles we have assumed, you are not a doormat. We will get to know each other to see if we have the same interests, I will gain your respect as a Dominant, and then you will willing grant me your gift of submission. Please be in the mind frame that BDSM is not about kinky sex because that is not what I am here for. There are many aspects to this lifestyle and so many things to explore that involve a much deeper level. I do not want my time wasted and I have a very keen bullshit radar, so message me only if you are ready, willing, and able to commit mind, body, heart, and soul to the submission that you need to give in order to complete that part of you that is missing.