DISCLAIMER: If your first message or reply to me is
how your "struggling" or "need help" then don't waste my time. I'm not paying for your problems I got my own stuff I'm not gonna fix yours too. Also if you cannot hold a conversation then JFC don't match cause that's kinda an intricate part of a dating app!!
We're 36 and poly married. Now listen I understand 100% that this particular lifestyle is not for everyone but it is OUR (my wife and i) lifestyle. If you don't want to be into it that's your choice but a simple no thanks or its not for me will suffice. I don't bash anyone's lifestyle choices cause that's wrong so please don't bash mine and be rude. 90% of this site is fake and 9% of the remaining 10% is ugly on the inside regardless of their physical appearance.
Pro's to dating us:
I'm ugly so you know I'm not gonna cheat.
I'll make sure you're entertained by laughter.
I am a 100/10 professional cuddler.
Con's:
I might eat your food when you're not looking.
I'm only a 6/10 looks.
I'm considered "clingy"
no ** or poopoo and no permanent markings.
My wife has previous sexual traumas and we've been together almost 10 years and she still can't do everything I'd normally like in life in general. My point is asking online about your spouses traumas is always going to get two sides: the side who wants you to leave them cause that gives them an Read more… opportunity to slide in his/her place or B. The side that says seek counseling or therapy or whatever not knowing if that's even been considered before and potentially failed. For all she knows he IS making progress and it's just not in the area she's focusing on. My wife has made progress in areas that didn't effect me as much. Should I have left her after a year because she didn't progress in the areas I WANTED her to? Hell no that'd be ignorant or at the very least selfish.
Idk maybe I'm bias but seems like the majority of people telling you to leave him are guys-- just an observation 🙄