Into BDSM as a feeling and a connection more than specific fetishes/activities- although I've tried most and I'm always interested in new ones.
Best way to get there for me has always been talk, connect, vanilla with some light stuff and with ice not only broken but melted develop the new and unique BDSM relationship into everything it can be -whether for a night or NSA over a few weeks or months or something more if it leads there
Blood, poo, animals, Kids the usual really
definitely want to know what happens next
Yes Yes a thousand times yes. A dom would have to be some kind of monster if they could suppress, or worse not have, some kind of vulnerability. Where it is meaningful and real BDSM is a two way trust game and by definition this will draw out vulnerability in any caring human no matter what their Read more… role. I've been in BDSM for 35 years as a dom leaning switch, and always at the point where a session shifts to aftercare I get a wave of concern/worry about teh welfare of my sub and a real fear that they feel uncomfortable-or worse