Hello, my name's Chris, I'm 56, married with two grown up * and live in Eastbourne.
I have been with my wife for over 30 years, so | don't really know much else. Recently our relationship has changed, and I now find myself in what I've learned is called a 'dead marriage'. We still love each other, but after years of trying to change things, we've finally had the conversation and I've been told to 'go find a mistress'.
I have always harboured submissive fantasies, but obviously, have never acted on them.
So I'm looking for a dominant woman who would be willing to meet me for a coffee/ drink, a chat and see if I may have anything that she would like.
I'm a little nervous about this, but if the right woman is out there I know that I can please her as I'm willing to try most things that are safe but will broaden my understanding and experience.
I consider myself a 'good egg', fairly old school, but polite and respectful.
Thanks for reading.
Chris x

Desires and Fantasies**
What should I put here, a list of activities?
Well, l'll give anything a go once, and then try it once more just to be sure...