When my boyfriend and I first got together, the sex was incredible. Intense, aggressive, needy, mind-blowing. Now, he says that he can't do it anymore because he's fallen in love with me. He respects me too much and doesn't want to hurt me. I've stressed that I would tell him if it was ever too
Read more…much for me, and that I literally fantasize daily about it, but it doesn't happen anymore. We've been together a year. How do I be the loved, protected, and cared for "wife", but also be treated like the dirty slut in the bedroom? Our sex life was incredible. Now it's once a week, missionary and sleep. The only time the intensity is there is if he's ***. And it was never crazy - very aggressive sex, spanking, hair pulling, a bit of choking, and anal play. He would occasionally call me names, and tell me the dirty things he wanted to do with, or to me. All of which I loved, and I want to do so much more. ANY suggestions are welcome. I get left feeling like he doesn't desire me anymore.