About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- LTR (relationship)
- Networking
- NSA (no strings...)
- BDSM Lovers
Description
Currently in a polyamorous relationship. My partner and I are currently looking for our third, and if interested there are a few things to know.
First: My partner and I are committed to each other, but we both have agreed to find a third for our relationship, and I can have someone to talk to as well. What does this mean?, it means that you whom may be interested is becoming part of our dynamic.
Current Dynamic between current partner and myself:
Romantically committed to each other ((I am also able to explore outside connections not particular to our dynamic(ex. I have someone long distance I may talk to from time to time but they are not involved with my partner))
Dom/Sub dynamic: I am her Dom and she is my Sub. This dynamic is more within our sex life as she is experiencing this lifestyle for the first time. However, it sometimes extends to daily life.
Somewhat traditional relationship dynamic: While we do have the Dom / Sub dynamic, consent is a key thing for me. I make no decision for her without her consent first, otherwise she’s free to choose and make her decisions.
What does that mean for you?
Know what you are looking for and wanting and be up front with it from day 1 and be intentional. It would not lead into living together, it would start out learning each other, going out and figuring out what we like and if there are things the three of us would have in common. We come intentionally and we can’t hope for anything but that being returned in earnest. As we grow with the relationship.
I do have premium but if you want to communicate with me outside of here I have discord and other platforms I use
Limits
that is something that will be discussed
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
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First: My partner and I are committed to each other, but we both have agreed to find a third for our relationship, and I can have someone to talk to as Read more… well. What does this mean?, it means that you whom may be interested is becoming part of our dynamic.
Current Dynamic between current partner and myself:
Romantically committed to each other ((I am also able to explore outside connections not particular to our dynamic(ex. I have someone long distance I may talk to from time to time but they are not involved with my partner))
Dom/Sub dynamic: I am her Dom and she is my Sub. This dynamic is more within our sex life as she is experiencing this lifestyle for the first time. However, it sometimes extends to daily life.
Somewhat traditional relationship dynamic: While we do have the Dom / Sub dynamic, consent is a key thing for me. I make no decision for her without her consent first, otherwise she’s free to choose and make her decisions.
What does that mean for you?
Know what you are looking for and wanting and be up front with it from day 1 and be intentional. It would not lead into living together, it would start out learning each other, going out and figuring out what we like and if there are things the three of us would have in common. We come intentionally and we can’t hope for anything but that being returned in earnest. As we grow with the relationship.
I do have premium but if you want to communicate with me outside of here I have discord and other platforms I use
A safe word should be questioned before its use in my personal opinion. If a sub requests to use a personal safe word, then I’ll ask why so I’ll have the knowledge. However, when I did last have a sub some years ago, we used a safe word for boundary purposes, but my sub liked edging and orgasm Read more… denial, so she would sometimes use the safe word and I’d ask why but the answers were only boundary or edging. The safe word should NEVER be question of the legitimacy of when to use it, its a safe word for a reason, it’s used for a reason and the only reason that should be understood is to keep you safe. That’s it, that’s all, anything outside of that and whatever else you agreed to, is narcissistic behavior
prefer master/slave
I will not be submissive at all
I will not do primal/prey
Preferences are Black and Puerto Rican women but am willing to explore
Preference is age between 27-35
Obedience is non negotiable.
BDSM is non negotiable it is a requirement
Everything else can be Read more… discussed later.
Master/Slave is likely what you are thinking about
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