I am a 33 year old Daddy Dom. for those who don’t know what that means it means I love to spoil my submissive and I am very compassionate towards them.
I have been interested in BDSM since I was 27. I didn’t know what it was until I was that age since I was a bit sheltered during my younger years.
currently I am looking for friends I can interact with on here. I am not looking for a submissive at this time. I will make it known when I am.
Desires and Fantasies
What bdsm is to me: a relationship in which there is a deeper connection, where I am interested in my submissive and she is interested in me. That she shares whats on her mind freely and openly, and that she has a ear for what I say to her. That she willingly offers herself to me and that occur's at a her pace that she is comfortable with.
I am a problem solver, which means I like to give advice and for my partner to confide in me.
Fantasies: Oral sex on the regular (nearly on command?)
Easy access
I'm sure there is more. Feel free to contact me to discuss.
Well, I look at disagreements as being a moment where authority needs to be relinquished by the Dom and both bring their point of views as adults to the table. That's a no-play situation. D/s requires a lot negotiation and communication. There are moments where I as a person get heated and need to Read more… seperate myself from the altercation so I do not say something harmful. In that sitaution I need to as a Dom communicate with my submissive that I need a day to cool down. Radio silence feels like ghosting, and the best resolution is being diligent and checking in on them in a non-aggressive way. If they do not respond , reread their 'break' time, if it lined up with waiting a bit longer be patient. Only ti'me I'd dismiss myself from a relationship is if it is direct willful disobedience followed by dishonesty. I then lose my trust in my submissive and as such wonder if everything told to me was true. I'm just explaining how I have handled it in the past.