No matter how or what specific holiday you celebrate, gift-giving is a good idea any time of year. But since we’re in the season of bells, holly, and lots of shopping, let’s talk about what adult toys you can give to your kinky partner to make their eyes light up and their bodies heat up.
Almost every year, my Dominant and I celebrate two Christmases. There’s the one with the kids and our family where we give out gift cards, books, and whatever the latest gadget is that our children can’t live without. And then, later, when everyone is in bed and we’re alone, we have a kinky gift exchange.
Sometimes, we have a scene or trade sexual favors. And sometimes, he gives me a new toy to try. If you want to make sure your holiday season is fun and kinky, consider one of these toys for your special gift exchange.
5 Adult Toys to Get Naughty With This Holiday Season
Heavy Duty Massager
When I say “heavy duty” I mean something like the Original Magic Wand (aka the Hitachi). There are others out there – the Doxy Massager comes to mind. The Magic Wand is now available in a rechargeable option so you’re not stuck plugged into the wall (not that I mind that part). What do you get with this kinky gift? Try forced orgasms, cock-torture, and pleasurable-pain for those who love it. Even better, you can try different attachments to go with it.
Okay, so maybe this is a stocking stuffer, but good lube is often forgotten in all our kinky fun. Whether you want to try anal, give fisting a try, or just need to make that pussy a little wetter, the thing that separates a good time from an Oh-my-God-get-that-thing-away-from-me moment is your lube. There are a ton of lubes on the market, and it’s a matter of trying different kinds until you find the one you like. I like The Butters by LTASEX – it’s creamy and can be used in other kinky fun like bootblacking and leather care.
Cuffs and Collar
Getting the cuffs or collars offered on the sex toy websites that cater to everyone is good for learning, but at a certain point, you’re going to want something that’s meant to stand up to rougher play. Whether you’re into leather or you like the fun colors of paracord, there are plenty of options out there. It’s best to buy from a store that caters to the kinky. Kink Craft has some great DIY options or you can buy colorful sets from them. The cuffs and collar I use in scenes are from Bear Things.
If you’ve been talking about taking your bondage from the scarves and tie or handcuffs and bondage tape play to actual rope, this is a great time to get your hands on the real thing. Of course, before you tie up your partner, learn as much as you can. Two Knotty Boys is a great place to start. And for rope, I like My Nawashi, a Shibari rope store on Etsy.
Assuming at least one of your partners has a cock, a cock ring isn’t a bad idea. And no, this isn’t just for submissive men. My Daddy Dom loves to wear one when we fuck. Depending on the type you choose, you can each feel sensations or not. We like the Tyler by Svakom because he gets feel good vibes, and so do I.
There are so many adult toys to try and things you can buy for your kinky lover. This just scratches the surface. If it looks fun to you, and you think your partner will get off on it, buy it, wrap it up in a pretty bow, and then watch the look on their face when they open it up this holiday season. But, of course, the best part is trying it out together.
If you’re a bit low on funds try some DIY BDSM 😉