Brat tamers are Dominants who look for naughty, playful submissives, called brats. They love the challenge of keeping up with the mischievous antics of brats and providing suitable rules, punishments and rewards.
Brat tamers know that they’ll never tame their brats, but they have a whole lot of fun trying. They are dominant in nature but they do not expect the same level of control and submission that say a slave master would. They know that playful mischief is part of a brat’s make up and embrace that. Enjoying when their brat misbehaves and coming up with suitable punishments that both brat and tamer will enjoy.
Brat tamers tend to be more flexible than other Doms as they enjoy the challenge of their submissives. They will enjoying finding new ways to punish and reward behaviour, always trying to stay a step ahead of their brat. They can just be out and out dominants but can be switches too. As people who enjoy bratting can enjoy taming brats too. They get the brat mind set.
Which BDSM archetype matches well with a brat tamer?
Brat and brat tamers go together well, other submissives can work well with a brat tamer, if they’re willing to get in touch with their inner brat every now and then!
What makes a good brat tamer?
Invention and inspiration are essential to brat tamers as they’re always going to be challenged by their submissive’s naughty behaviour. They enjoy being kept on their toes and don’t look for complete and utter submission because they love responding to bratty behaviour.
Quick thinking is essential for a brat tamer, they can show their dominance in physical, verbal and mental ways and always have an answer for bratting. They enjoy this element of constantly having to battle for control. They always come out on top (or on the bottom if that’s what they prefer) as they have sharp responses so a brat never gets away with their naughty behaviour for long.
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