Masochist

Masochist BDSM Archetype

What is a masochist?

Masochists enjoy having pain inflicted on them. It might not be all kinds of pain, but only specific types. They usually match up with sadists because sadists enjoy inflicting pain.

Masochists tend to be submissive, but can be switches too. Masochists know what it feels to take a punishment do can make effective tops in a scene. Some Dominants have masochistic streaks, enjoying a certain level of pain themselves. Masochism is centred on the pleasure of pain but many masochists enjoy being controlled and dominated too.

Masochists are often bratty, to get the pain they want. The worst torture for a masochist is totally withholding punishment as they crave pain.

In day-to-day life masochists may find non kinky ways to satisfy their desires such as pushing themselves hard during exercise. Masochists often use pain to feel free from the pressures of day to day life.

Kinky men who are masochists All men

TonyMilanowski

TonyMilanowski

Male (26)    188 cm, 90 kg

BDSM Lovers, Kinky Dates, LTR (relationship), Cybersex

Sarajevo, Bosnia and Herzegovina

Rbpanda

Rbpanda

Male (20)

BDSM Lovers, Kinky Dates, Friends, NSA (no strings...), LTR (relationship), Swingers, Pic Exchange, Cybersex, Events & Places

London, UK

Nicobaby

Nicobaby

Male (36)    180 cm, 90 kg

BDSM Lovers, Friends, Events & Places

London, UK

SteelSUB

SteelSUB

Male (28)    183 cm, 80 kg

BDSM Lovers, Kinky Dates, Friends, Swingers, Pic Exchange, Events & Places, Networking

Sheffield, UK

BT2019

BT2019

Male (54)    180 cm, 80 kg

BDSM Lovers, Kinky Dates, Friends, LTR (relationship)

Derby, UK

James2018

James2018

Male (27)

BDSM Lovers, Kinky Dates, Friends, Pic Exchange, Cybersex, Networking

Lancaster, UK

Kinky women who are masochists All women

Lilmonster

Lilmonster

Female (35)    165 cm, 57 kg

BDSM Lovers, Friends, NSA (no strings...), LTR (relationship)

Dudley, UK

BerryBrighton

BerryBrighton

Female (37)    150 cm, - kg

BDSM Lovers, Kinky Dates

Brighton and Hove, UK

Blonde-pet

Blonde-pet

Female (38)    164 cm, 59 kg

BDSM Lovers, Kinky Dates, Friends

Hamburg, Germany

BigPolly

BigPolly

Female (43)    162 cm, - kg

BDSM Lovers, Friends, NSA (no strings...), Swingers, Events & Places

Solihull, UK

Sub_Molly

Sub_Molly

Female (32)    170 cm, 102 kg

BDSM Lovers, Kinky Dates, Friends, NSA (no strings...), LTR (relationship)

Welwyn Hatfield, UK

Pharaoh

Pharaoh

Female (25)    - cm, 120 kg

BDSM Lovers, Kinky Dates, Friends, NSA (no strings...), Events & Places, Networking

Brooklyn, USA

Which BDSM archetype matches well with a masochist?

Masochists find pleasure in pain, this can be sexual but isn’t always so. They will enjoy certain pain in certain situations, but not all. This will be discussed in advance. Masochists typically match with dominants, sadists or tops.

How do masochists enjoy pain?

Sadistic torture is fun for masochists. They often enjoy the physical marks that remain after impact and other rough play. Red skin, bruises, rope marks and welts are worn as badges of honour. Masochists often enjoy their marks being prodded or poked. They may even do this to themselves. Pain from marks received in a scene make a masochist feel good, often in a sexual way.

Some masochists enjoy scenes that do not end with marks. They can have pain inflicted on them by restraint, or with electric toys or impact toys that don’t mark easily. They can also enjoy mental torture known as a mind fuck. This is when a sadist uses fear and control to make a masochist feel pain without actually inflicting physical torture at all.

Threads and discussions that include: Masochist

  • You know you're a Masochist When...

    You walk past a guy using an industrial machine to pound down soil and you start wondering what it'd feel like on your butt. (Do not try this at home, folks, clearly!) What other things ma ...
    • 6 replies
      • 3
      • Like
  • Members looking for: Masochist

    WANTED - Lady or MtF TG gurl with sharp teeth, long claws and perhaps a full bladder for occasional nsa daytime meetings in the Bath/Bristol UK are...

    Kinky Dating25km around UK, Bath

    Looking for new subbmisive girl who is open for exploring new kinks. Ready to be trained and willing to learn new kinks. With love for toys and be ...

    Kinky Dating18 to 33 years ● 500km around UK, York

    Hello,

    I am a very obedient open minded masochist who enjoys being used for the pleasure of other, I never feel more complete then when I am loo...

    Kinky Dating35 to 70 years ● 200km around USA, Poway

    I am tall. thin, creative, exotic, boyish, adventurous, slightly masochistic, submissive when encouraged. I would like to find a likeminded female...

    Kinky Dating35 to 60 years ● 500km around UK, London

    Looking for a top/Dom to play with on a semi regular basis.
    Not looking for anything serious or monogamous.
    I'm a masochistic bottom who loves ...

    Kinky Dating28 to 45 years ● 10km around UK, Brighton and Hove

    Similar to Masochist

    Keywords: Sadomasochism, S&M, SM, S/M

    Similar BDSM archetypes to Masochist

    2366 Members

    Sadist
    A sadist is a Dominant who enjoys inflicting pain on a submissive partner or partners. However, it isn’t always that a sadist enjoys inflicting all kinds of pain on others. They may wel...

    1878 Members

    Degradee
    A degradation receiver (degradee) gets turned on by being humiliated, degraded and/or embarrassed in a sexual or kink context. This is a consensual activity where both parties enjoy thi...

    1497 Members

    Degrader
    A degrader (degradation giver) uses humiliation and degradation to embarrass their submissive. This is done in a consensual way, knowing that the degradation receiver finds it sexually ...

    9119 Members

    Submissive
    A submissive likes to be controlled, relishing someone else taking responsibility away from them. Some are subservient and submit willingly. Others are brattier and put up a fight. Ther...
    By continuing to browse, you accept the use of Cookies to enhance and personalise your experience.