About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- NSA (no strings...)
Description
I'm a transgender woman that has identified as female for a long time. It has brought peace to my life to be who I truly am.
I am more of a bohemian and outlier. I am the woman who usually wears long skirts and listens to classic rock from the 70s. I have varied interests and I'm always learning. My latest fascination is neuroscience but I am starting to take time for meditation, fly-fishing, and to crochet.
I have a job I love that I worked hard for so I will not post a face pic since it could endanger my job. I have put a lot of time and effort to get my Masters of Social Work and a license to throw it away. Since I work in telehealth it also gives me the opportunity to travel and still work.
I'm just here to chat.
I am not looking for any submissives, especially male ones.
Limits
Closed-minded people, men who refuse to read profiles, transphobia.
I am looking for a female submissive only.
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
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I am looking for a female submissive only.
I am more of a bohemian and outlier. I am the woman who usually wears long skirts and listens to classic rock from the 70s. I have varied interests and I'm always learning. Read more… My latest fascination is neuroscience but I am starting to take time for meditation, fly-fishing, and to crochet.
I have a job I love that I worked hard for so I will not post a face pic since it could endanger my job. I have put a lot of time and effort to get my Masters of Social Work and a license to throw it away. Since I work in telehealth it also gives me the opportunity to travel and still work.
I'm just here to chat.
I am not looking for any submissives, especially male ones.
Scammers are easy to spot on this site. They will demand you call them mistress or master immediately without showing they have earned that respect. If they can't give you an actual physical location of their "dungeon" then it is fake. They also try to put contact info on their profile, though now Read more… they put it on a profile pic. Even though it is against the terms of service, this site doesn't seem to do much about it either.
There has been a kinky ad looking for "pay pigs" for several days and this site still has yet to remove it despite being reported multiple times.
:1782769500,7608138, I need help with 17, 23, and 24
23 and 24 are not released yet.
I would recommend a SMART goal. SMART stands for Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, and Time-Bound. So let's say you want to start walking. Your goal is to eventually walk 5 miles a day, 4 days a week. You wouldn't start with that but that work up to it in increments. For the first week Read more… you only walk a mile for 4 days. Do that for 2 weeks then move up to 2 miles and so on. You could do this with any goal but remember to keep it a SMART goal. You can look it up online to learn more.
As for meeting new people, you may need to learn to love yourself. Sticky notes on your bathroom mirror to give yourself positive affirmations to remind you daily that you are worthy of respect, dignity, and love.
Sometimes we need to start with really simple suggestions to move forward.
Plagueis_wise has some wonderful ideas. Finding a mistress on Fet that has experience in this area may be a good mentor for you. She may also be able to help with any negotiations between your husband and yourself since she should be neutral and objective in this situation. This way both people get Read more… their needs met. A couple should be willing to make a compromise with each other. The idea that you should just separate is some of the problem that couples have today. They think separation is the only way and do not even bother with communicating with each other about the issues that are going on. Communication and trust are a big part of a BDSM relationship. A kink friendly therapist may also help you learn more about each other's needs.
If you choose to try counseling again you may want to try this site which has kink aware professionals.
https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
I'm definitely an outlier. I am ok that I don't fit in with society's norms. It is their Read more… problem, not mine and I will continue to be my true self instead of what they want me to be.
Spirituality is also a big part of my life. I try to stay out of religious discussions though since some people feel a need to try and convert me.I have a job that I truly enjoy and brings me peace. It gets very stressful at times in social work but it is worth it if I made a difference in someone's life. I will send a pic once I find someone who I want to spend time with, I won't be posting a face pic.
I have Meniere's disease so I am losing my hearing. I may also have vertigo unexpectedly which puts an end to the day since it could be hours before I feel ok again. I do know ASL but working on becoming more fluent for another way to communicate.I'm only looking for a female submissive. I AM NOT looking for male submissives, there are no exceptions.