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Not single

Open relationship with Ask me

Personal details

Gender Woman
Age 39
Status Not single
Height 160cm
Weight 63kg
Body shape Slim
Eye colour Blue
Hair colour Black
Hair length Middle
Orientation Bisexual
Ethnicity Indigenous
Origin USA
Pubic Hair Shaved
Body hair None
Breast size A
Zodiac sign Cancer
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings
Disability

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

Description

Hi, I’m Loli — a 39-year-old service-slave based in Louisiana with over 15 years in the lifestyle. I belong to a Master and am not seeking a primary relationship. I’m here looking for genuine friendship and connection.

Please don’t open with sex or kink talk — get to know me as a person first. If there’s chemistry and trust, maybe you’ll earn a chance to play with the fucktoy. But ##Certain words (e.g. contact details or terms we don’t allow in our community) are on our blacklist. If you use one of these, it will automatically be replaced with this message.## nt sexual energy is a major turn-off.

I’ve also written a BDSM education book and love connecting with others who are passionate about learning and growth in this lifestyle..

Limits

hard limits

bathroom stuff



hitting my feet

Wil add more later

My roles & archetype

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Lolitakitty86
icon-wio Lolitakitty86 wrote something in the forum
  • 26.02.2026 5:05:35
  • Female (39)
  • Hammond
  • Not single
Training ideas for sub partner

@JMenace702The first answer really depends on what the task is to be trained in.

There are plenty of tasks one can train. I am a fan of service. If you like your tea or coffee a certain way, that can be trained. If you like your table set a certain way. Other tasks, Boot blacking, bathing, if you Read more… like your house cleaned in a structured way. You can train someone in being a rope bunny, or you can train them in how to stand at a cross effectively. Protocols and rituals are also trained tasks.

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Lolitakitty86
icon-wio Lolitakitty86 wrote something in the forum
  • 26.02.2026 4:16:03
  • Female (39)
  • Hammond
  • Not single
Training ideas for sub partner

what do you want to train them in? or are you looking for ideas of what to train them in?

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Lolitakitty86
icon-wio Lolitakitty86 wrote something in the forum
  • 25.02.2026 18:48:15
  • Female (39)
  • Hammond
  • Not single
SMALL ACTS OF SERVICE

Service, to me, is about care. I’m drawn to service that carries formality, structure, and intention. When I present tea or coffee, it’s done ritualistically. When I help my D-types dress, it follows a deliberate rhythm. When I bathe them, the same care and structure apply.
Everything I do has Read more… intention behind it. It either follows a clear structure or is performed in a way that is beautiful to witness. The way I move, the way I hold my body, the way I look at them while serving, all of it is purposeful. Everything carries the intention of being pleasing.

When I am serving my community, I do so knowing I am representing my D-types. Everything I do reflects upon my owners. So those I serve may say, "That is So and So's girl." They have her well-trained. Or they may report back to my owners on how well I have pleased them.

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Lolitakitty86
icon-wio Lolitakitty86 wrote something in the forum
  • 23.02.2026 4:25:08
  • Female (39)
  • Hammond
  • Not single
Does it actually work?

i HATE instant lewd messages. Even the people i am in relationships with don't talk to me that way unless i have consented to being their sex toy. Sometimes I ignore those messages, sometimes I toy with them till they get mad and block me. Either way i win and occasionally i enjoy myself.

Lolitakitty86
icon-wio Lolitakitty86 wrote something in the forum
  • 21.02.2026 23:25:13
  • Female (39)
  • Hammond
  • Not single
Do some people really like to be treated like objects.

I have been used as a footstool, a cup holder, an ashtray (in my hand, only ash, no embers), and as a fuck toy. Trust is definitely needed. But it is a lot of fun, slightly degrading but not humiliating. I am the best (insert object here) while being used.

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Lolitakitty86
icon-wio Lolitakitty86 has uploaded new photos
  • 24.11.2025 6:25:38
  • Female (39)
  • Hammond
  • Not single
  • Lolitakitty86
  • Lolitakitty86
Lolitakitty86
icon-wio Lolitakitty86 posted a status update
  • 22.11.2025 11:42:39
  • Female (39)
  • Hammond
  • Not single
Do we not end conversations any more? Every time I tell some random person "no" they just stop talking instead of saying "ok bye" and then stop talking.

It is kinda rude to just float out of a conversation. Imagine doing that in real life. Most of these conversations should Read more… never happen with complete strangers in real life any way but bare with me.

In real life:
Person A : "hey baby can I see your body?"
Person B : "no"
Person A: just walks away....

See how odd internet conversations are. One should never be that personal with a complete stranger on or off the internet. But then just walking away instead of closing the conversation. Rude just rude.
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Lolitakitty86
icon-wio Lolitakitty86 has updated their profile description
  • 04.08.2025 18:52:48
  • Female (39)
  • Hammond
  • Not single
Hi, I’m Loli — a 39-year-old service-slave based in Louisiana with over 15 years in the lifestyle. I belong to a Master and am not seeking a primary relationship. I’m here looking for genuine friendship and connection.

Please don’t open with sex or kink talk — get to know me as a person first. If Read more… there’s chemistry and trust, maybe you’ll earn a chance to play with the fucktoy. But instant sexual energy is a major turn-off.

I’ve also written a BDSM education book and love connecting with others who are passionate about learning and growth in this lifestyle..
Lolitakitty86
icon-wio Lolitakitty86 has uploaded a new photo
  • 30.05.2025 14:53:02
  • Female (39)
  • Hammond
  • Not single
  • Lolitakitty86
Lolitakitty86
icon-wio Lolitakitty86 finished the BDSM Test
  • 22.04.2025 1:26:29
  • Female (39)
  • Hammond
  • Not single

43%
Dominant

100%
Submissive

Lolitakitty86
icon-wio Lolitakitty86 has uploaded a new photo
  • 21.04.2025 6:04:18
  • Female (39)
  • Hammond
  • Not single
  • Lolitakitty86
Lolitakitty86
icon-wio Lolitakitty86 posted a status update
  • 21.04.2025 4:44:15
  • Female (39)
  • Hammond
  • Not single
always amusing when the trash takes itself out. lol
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  • 21.04.2025 2:46:06
  • Female (39)
  • Hammond
  • Not single
Lolitakitty86
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  • 16.07.2024 14:12:58
  • Female (39)
  • Hammond
  • Not single