Hi, I’m Loli — a 39-year-old service-slave based in Louisiana with over 15 years in the lifestyle. I belong to a Master and am not seeking a primary relationship. I’m here looking for genuine friendship and connection.
Please don’t open with sex or kink talk — get to know me as a person first. If there’s chemistry and trust, maybe you’ll earn a chance to play with the fucktoy. But ##Certain words (e.g. contact details or terms we don’t allow in our community) are on our blacklist. If you use one of these, it will automatically be replaced with this message.## nt sexual energy is a major turn-off.
I’ve also written a BDSM education book and love connecting with others who are passionate about learning and growth in this lifestyle..
hard limits
bathroom stuff
hitting my feet
Wil add more later
@JMenace702The first answer really depends on what the task is to be trained in.
There are plenty of tasks one can train. I am a fan of service. If you like your tea or coffee a certain way, that can be trained. If you like your table set a certain way. Other tasks, Boot blacking, bathing, if you Read more… like your house cleaned in a structured way. You can train someone in being a rope bunny, or you can train them in how to stand at a cross effectively. Protocols and rituals are also trained tasks.
what do you want to train them in? or are you looking for ideas of what to train them in?
Service, to me, is about care. I’m drawn to service that carries formality, structure, and intention. When I present tea or coffee, it’s done ritualistically. When I help my D-types dress, it follows a deliberate rhythm. When I bathe them, the same care and structure apply.
Everything I do has Read more… intention behind it. It either follows a clear structure or is performed in a way that is beautiful to witness. The way I move, the way I hold my body, the way I look at them while serving, all of it is purposeful. Everything carries the intention of being pleasing.
When I am serving my community, I do so knowing I am representing my D-types. Everything I do reflects upon my owners. So those I serve may say, "That is So and So's girl." They have her well-trained. Or they may report back to my owners on how well I have pleased them.
i HATE instant lewd messages. Even the people i am in relationships with don't talk to me that way unless i have consented to being their sex toy. Sometimes I ignore those messages, sometimes I toy with them till they get mad and block me. Either way i win and occasionally i enjoy myself.
I have been used as a footstool, a cup holder, an ashtray (in my hand, only ash, no embers), and as a fuck toy. Trust is definitely needed. But it is a lot of fun, slightly degrading but not humiliating. I am the best (insert object here) while being used.