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Gender Man
Age 59
Status Single
Height 173cm
Weight 94kg
Body shape Athletic
Eye colour Blue
Hair colour Brown
Hair length
Beard Full beard
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin UK
Body hair Some hair
Dick length 18cm
Dick width 7cm
Zodiac sign Aquarius
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings
Languages German
English

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Description

March 27th, 2024.

After a few Years on this site, and many years on others and in the Community, I have decided to slim down my profile, and refocus on my primary fetishes and interests.

Please - take the time to read my whole profile. it is to your advantage.

First and foremost, I am a big breast fetishist, and have been since I was around 16 - a total of 43 years to date.
“Big” for those of you in doubt, is largely dependent on your frame size, as much as it is your back and cup size - so a woman who is a dress size 10 - for example, with 34C breasts has ‘big’ breasts.
(I hear often from women who say “my breasts aren’t very big, but….” and quite often they ARE - hence the statement above !)

I love big breasts on a woman. Heavy, full, round, soft, firm, hanging, saggy, stretched - it really doen’t matter, as long as they are large.
There is no such thing as “too large” for me. I once met a woman with 40M breasts (UK size) and spent an amazing couple of hours in her company, worshipping her assets. Big areolae and long thick nipples that I can suckle, pull and stretch are very welcome.

I love to see a big pair of breasts, through clothing, to tease and flirt, stroke, touch, grope, squeeze, pull, expose…. and play.
That is my Utopia.

if you have an interest in breast and nipple play, breast sex and nipple orgasms, then look no further. Everyone can have a nipple orgasm… the biggest block to this is the human mind. it IS possible, I can tell you that from my experience of helping others to explore and enjoy them.

I love women dressed in Fetishwear.
Silk and Satin tops, Leather, Latex and See through materials, as well as stretch fabrics all get me hot under the collar.

I once had breast sex with my busty ex wife, while she was wearing a black Lycra swimsuit, and I was sat on the side of a swimming pool in Cyprus, with her in the pool. it was a heavenly experience, both physically and visually.

By nature, I am a Dominant, Disciplinarian Facilitator.
That sounds like a bit of a mouthful, but it is quite simple really.
I enjoy creating scenarios which give pleasure to others… feeding their specific fantasies - if you will. I can be your guide, teacher, instructor, smoking cessation clinician, and more for Ladies, and Couples.
I enjoy showing Couples how to make the best of their adventures in kink, and have done this many times over the years. my scenarios are original and creative. I have a good knowledge of venues - and other people who would be interested in joining you on your journey.

I am the Bull on your cuckold journey. Thoughtful and caring, but wanton, and desiring of being serviced.

I spank, I paddle, I belt, I crop, I cane.
I can be your pleasure Dom, or your pain Dom - whichever suits your needs, as all aspects of Dominant/submissive play interest me. I enjoy instructing others in the “Dark Arts” of Domination and Discipline… single Ladies and Couples also.
Aftercare is ALWAYS given, and this is non-negotiable. It can take whichever form you require, and we will have many discussions about this - and your limits, before our journey begins.

I hate the term ‘Sapiosexual’ - however I would describe myself as one.
Intelligence, and the ability to articulate your thoughts and wishes is attractive to me.
I like a good cup of tea and a chat about kink and fetish matters, as much as I like to hold you over my knee for a well deserved spanking… so be prepared for both.

That will be all for now.
If you wish to know more -
to delve into the delicious, decadent, deviant mindset that I possess, you’ll need to message me.
If you choose to do so, please use the phrase “Delicious, Decadent, Deviant” in your headline - so that I know you have at least read my profile.

I look forward, very much, to hearing from you soon.
“DarkArts”.

Limits

I like to push the limits of others - with their permission- obviously.
As to my own limits, I am still discovering those one day at a time.

I am happy to discuss the more intimate aspects of those with someone who actually plans on meeting with me in the flesh - otherwise, what’s the point in sharing that level of intimate detail with total strangers ?

I have a fetish for big breasts, breast sex, binding, tying, nipple play, breast slapping and caning - and breast torture, so anyone who messages me regarding that topic will have my undivided attention.

I am a Disciplinarian - with considerable experience, and am alway on the lookout for a wayward bottom to spank, paddle, crop or cane. All the better if it comes with a purpose - for example, a misbehaviour of some sort. I will abide by your limits always, but soft limits are open to being flexed -with your permission.

My places

Fetish.com gives you…


Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in London with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!

DarkArts1066
icon-wio DarkArts1066 wrote something in the forum
  • 14.04.2024 2:10:47
  • Male (59)
  • London
  • Single
Escorting and Cuckolding

Whether or not a person is a cuckold or not - is very much down to their own perspective on the matter - let’s not forget that. It’s all too easy to pigeonhole others, and say that He, She or They are X,Y or Z.
And so, to the OP I ask you this in reply to your question..
How do you feel about her Read more… hosting her clients at home ?
Financially, it makes sense. Not having to pay for a location for outcalls, and if as you say, money is the objective, then that would be the best and potentially quickest way out of that hole.
But - do you personally consider it an invasion of yours and her joint personal space ?
Are you excited when she tells you have a client coming over ?…
Perhaps with a pinch of apprehension ?
I had a young ladyfriend whom I used to see a few years ago who decided to escort at her apartment to supplement her regular income. She did it for about a year.
I would always be in the next room - for her safety, or sometimes in the same room if She, He or they both wanted pictures taken - but at no time was I a cuckold in that situation.
I enjoyed watching (and hearing) her being pleasured (she genuinely enjoyed her work, and was selective about the clients she met)
In that respect, I think it was more of a ‘hotwifing’ experience, rather than a cuckolding one.
Have you considered that perspective ?

DarkArts1066
icon-wio DarkArts1066 wrote something in the forum
  • 07.04.2024 9:33:19
  • Male (59)
  • London
  • Single
Born ?.....or made?

Just to interject again for a moment.
This is actually a very interesting point for debate.
We hear sometimes that someone is or was “born to lead”, and once again, I think that is a misrepresentation. I think we are all shaped by our environments, for good or for bad, and the concept of being Read more… Dominant or submissive in the workplace (in a non-kink way) is an interesting one.
In the workplace, I have always led by example - it is one of my personal mantras, and simply “who I am”.
As a result of that, even from the early days in my industry, people would look to me for advice or affirmation, and I have never been afraid to give it.
Interestingly, the more you ‘rise’ within an organisation, and the more critical your opinions and decisions become to the business, the greater the pressure to be right also becomes, and so that generates a lot of self criticism and introspectivity.
As a result of that, I believe that has bled over into my kink life, and made me a better Dominant for it.
A case of ‘work-life balance’ working in syncopathy perhaps ?

DarkArts1066
icon-wio DarkArts1066 wrote something in the forum
  • 07.04.2024 8:32:05
  • Male (59)
  • London
  • Single
Born ?.....or made?

I don’t believe that anyone is ‘born’ Dominant.
As MasterGreed says above though, at least some of the qualities required may well be inate - but perhaps dormant in a person, until they are exposed to environmental stimuli.
For example, during my formative years, exploring sexuality with various Read more… partners, I was always happy and comfortable taking control of an intimate situation with an inexperienced partner…. Whereas I know of others who struggled to do that at the same time, leading more to furtive fumblings, rather than sexual experimentation.
As I’ve aged, I’ve sought out situations, experienced more, read more, watched more, and developed the ‘path’ that I am now on.
Thus, we are not born Dominant, we develop those characteristics - or not, depending on what we are exposed to.

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DarkArts1066
icon-wio DarkArts1066 wrote something in the forum
  • 03.04.2024 9:11:30
  • Male (59)
  • London
  • Single
When The Magic Is Lost

Copper, you are not wrong - sadly.
I think this slow degradation is typical of ALL sites like this, over time. There is another with a similar name to this one which is now full of egotistical individuals, who seem to delight in rubbishing others to anyone who will listen.
Less collaboration and Read more… more competition ?It’s like really bad reality TV.
The more unscrupulous amongst us continue to seek out opportunities to abuse others.
I physically shudder every time I read profiles -predominantly published by young women, stating that they have ‘no limits’.
Are they doing this because they believe it will make them more attractive to Doms?
Or is it because they have such low self esteem that they crave that kind of extreme attention (read: abuse) ?
I could show you many messages I’ve received asking for advice about how to stay safe on sites, because people have been seriously abused whilst in the care of others - mostly so-called “Doms”.
Their profiles contain the words “no limits” … so one asks, did they bring this abuse upon themselves ?
The new trend seems to be towards ‘online’ experiences.
Personally, I’d rather meet up with someone in a quiet cafe or pub somewhere and discuss our mutual kinks, before heading off somewhere to practice them in person - with consent.
I live in North West London - Capital of England.
Total number of ‘real’ meets this year to date - zero.
4RCH - is right. I am becoming very jaded with having to try and educate individuals in how to be ‘safe’, when I would rather be exploring their kinks and fetishes with them instead perhaps.
I used to organise small events down on the South Coast pre- 2020, and am considering pulling away from sites and running invite only events again in my area.
Who knows.
All I know is that the spark has diminished for me - and apparently, many others too.

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DarkArts1066
icon-wio DarkArts1066 wrote something in the forum
  • 28.03.2024 11:45:30
  • Male (59)
  • London
  • Single
Big Breast Obsessed (Confession)

We seem to have a lot in common here.
I’ve been a BBF (Big Breast Fetishist) for over 43 years now.
Biggest I’ve experienced - a UK size 40M bust. All natural.

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DarkArts1066
icon-wio DarkArts1066 has uploaded a new photo
  • 27.03.2024 14:03:19
  • Male (59)
  • London
  • Single
  • DarkArts1066
DarkArts1066
icon-wio DarkArts1066 has updated their profile description
  • 27.03.2024 9:23:01
  • Male (59)
  • London
  • Single
March 27th, 2024.

After a few Years on this site, and many years on others and in the Community, I have decided to slim down my profile, and refocus on my primary fetishes and interests.

Please - take the time to read my whole profile. it is to your advantage.

First and foremost, I am a big Read more… breast fetishist, and have been since I was around 16 - a total of 43 years to date.
“Big” for those of you in doubt, is largely dependent on your frame size, as much as it is your back and cup size - so a woman who is a dress size 10 - for example, with 34C breasts has ‘big’ breasts.
(I hear often from women who say “my breasts aren’t very big, but….” and quite often they ARE - hence the statement above !)

I love big breasts on a woman. Heavy, full, round, soft, firm, hanging, saggy, stretched - it really doen’t matter, as long as they are large.
There is no such thing as “too large” for me. I once met a woman with 40M breasts (UK size) and spent an amazing couple of hours in her company, worshipping her assets. Big areolae and long thick nipples that I can suckle, pull and stretch are very welcome.

I love to see a big pair of breasts, through clothing, to tease and flirt, stroke, touch, grope, squeeze, pull, expose…. and play.
That is my Utopia.

if you have an interest in breast and nipple play, breast sex and nipple orgasms, then look no further. Everyone can have a nipple orgasm… the biggest block to this is the human mind. it IS possible, I can tell you that from my experience of helping others to explore and enjoy them.

I love women dressed in Fetishwear.
Silk and Satin tops, Leather, Latex and See through materials, as well as stretch fabrics all get me hot under the collar.

I once had breast sex with my busty ex wife, while she was wearing a black Lycra swimsuit, and I was sat on the side of a swimming pool in Cyprus, with her in the pool. it was a heavenly experience, both physically and visually.

By nature, I am a Dominant, Disciplinarian Facilitator.
That sounds like a bit of a mouthful, but it is quite simple really.
I enjoy creating scenarios which give pleasure to others… feeding their specific fantasies - if you will. I can be your guide, teacher, instructor, smoking cessation clinician, and more for Ladies, and Couples.
I enjoy showing Couples how to make the best of their adventures in kink, and have done this many times over the years. my scenarios are original and creative. I have a good knowledge of venues - and other people who would be interested in joining you on your journey.

I am the Bull on your cuckold journey. Thoughtful and caring, but wanton, and desiring of being serviced.

I spank, I paddle, I belt, I crop, I cane.
I can be your pleasure Dom, or your pain Dom - whichever suits your needs, as all aspects of Dominant/submissive play interest me. I enjoy instructing others in the “Dark Arts” of Domination and Discipline… single Ladies and Couples also.
Aftercare is ALWAYS given, and this is non-negotiable. It can take whichever form you require, and we will have many discussions about this - and your limits, before our journey begins.

I hate the term ‘Sapiosexual’ - however I would describe myself as one.
Intelligence, and the ability to articulate your thoughts and wishes is attractive to me.
I like a good cup of tea and a chat about kink and fetish matters, as much as I like to hold you over my knee for a well deserved spanking… so be prepared for both.

That will be all for now.
If you wish to know more -
to delve into the delicious, decadent, deviant mindset that I possess, you’ll need to message me.
If you choose to do so, please use the phrase “Delicious, Decadent, Deviant” in your headline - so that I know you have at least read my profile.

I look forward, very much, to hearing from you soon.
“DarkArts”.
DarkArts1066
icon-wio DarkArts1066 wrote something in the forum
  • 26.03.2024 15:22:56
  • Male (59)
  • London
  • Single
KINKY FLYER

Ahhh !… now, that would give the game away, given that I’m about to start hosting and running my own events again, after a four year hiatus.
But I’m sure you’ll get a good response regarding this - there are some very creative people here. 😉

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DarkArts1066
icon-wio DarkArts1066 wrote something in the forum
  • 25.03.2024 21:20:22
  • Male (59)
  • London
  • Single
First UK conviction for 'cyberflashing'

That an extremely valid point. I hadn’t considered the medical repercussions like rhat.
So we may well see a change in the demographic which is more familiar with the internet, and therefore an increase in the number of cases reported perhaps ?
I’m now wondering if there may be a degree of Read more… balancing out there … between the reduction in current cyberflashing perpetrators, due to legal ramifications, and an increase in numbers with fronto temporal dementia ?

DarkArts1066
icon-wio DarkArts1066 wrote something in the forum
  • 25.03.2024 17:34:57
  • Male (59)
  • London
  • Single
First UK conviction for 'cyberflashing'

Men (and potentially some women) who flop their bits out - especially on the internet, or via texts and messages do it for perverse sexual gratification, not as a result of mental illness
Whilst there are certain medical conditions which lead to a dysfunction in the brain, which concerns morality Read more… and behavioural issues, this is not an excuse.
I have a friend whose son has a psychological condition which means that, sometimes, he will get up, in a complete strangers house, strip off in the bathroom - and shower.
He is not a deviant or a pervert, he’s just hot, and feels the need to cool off - so he does.
However, he doesn’t send images of bits of his anatomy over the internet, or via message to anyone.

DarkArts1066
icon-wio DarkArts1066 wrote something in the forum
  • 24.03.2024 10:48:27
  • Male (59)
  • London
  • Single
Getting to know too much

This is one of those times where you set your own limits with others.
Many people mistakenly believe that ‘limits’ refer exclusively to sexual ones.
This is simply not true.
Your limits are whatever YOU determine them to be…. And if you want to keep your kink entirely separate from everyday life Read more… - then that is your prerogative. I would be upfront about this when seeking a play partner though. It’s natural for two people who are sexually intimate to become close in other ways. If you wish to avoid this, set out your stall early.

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DarkArts1066
icon-wio DarkArts1066 wrote something in the forum
  • 20.03.2024 16:13:32
  • Male (59)
  • London
  • Single
First UK conviction for 'cyberflashing'

There are plenty of pic collectors out there, who will happily receive an inbox of breasts and other body parts - if you want to send them.
Sadly they quite often end up on various sites - as “profile pics” for the “couple profile” that John Smith has put up, in the hopes of finding someone to Read more… play with his “wife” or “girlfriend” and he.
I don’t fully understand the psychology of that to be honest - it seems silly to me, but it happens.
Maybe his thinking is that anyone interested might become part of his “couple” when searching for other single women ? … I don’t know.
Women, very rarely enjoy receiving unsolicited dick pics in my experience.
I won’t send them. In fact I’m not always keen on sending them if they are asked for.
Penises are not the most attractive objects !

DarkArts1066
icon-wio DarkArts1066 wrote something in the forum
  • 20.03.2024 10:24:11
  • Male (59)
  • London
  • Single
Nipple Orgasm

Have you tried heat and cold play in tandem with nipple play ?… stimulating the nerve endings around the nipple and areolae over time with changes in temperature may help to take you where you want to go. Take your time, focus on the build up. Not everyone can have a nipple orgasm through ‘hard’ Read more… play - some need a slower, softer build up.
Conversely, I’ve known some ladies to benefit from breast slapping - with hand/belt/paddle etc prior to other nipple play.
BUT make sure you avoid the nipple itself, lest you cause inadvertent damage !.
Nipple shields work ..or keep some (see through) clothing on to avoid direct contact / impact with the nipple.
I’m happy to provide more specific detail for those who are interested.

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DarkArts1066
icon-wio DarkArts1066 wrote something in the forum
  • 20.03.2024 10:15:41
  • Male (59)
  • London
  • Single
First UK conviction for 'cyberflashing'

At last.
The narcissists will be up in arms, I am sure, but this has been needed for SO long now.
There is a proven correlation with sex crimes that abusers often escalate following ‘success’ at what is perceived as “low level abuse”.
‘Flashing’ whether face to face, or online would be an Read more… example of this ‘low level abuse’.
So effectively, if the message can be sent that tells potential abusers there are severe penalties for this kind of behaviour
It can only be a positive thing.
For this to be effective though, people MUST report incidents of Cyberflashing, AND there needs to be significant publicity around his Law being ratified.

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