If ones partner understands why the other is crying, I find it hard to imagine anyone worth their salt in this community would have a problem with it. If there's no warning to this and they experience it for the first time. That would be confusing.

Definitely not a switch thing.

Everyone who's commented has given pretty good advice. The caveat that I don't think anyone has focused on would be how to select your dom. Because the right dom will make experimentation fun and exciting. Many self-proclaimed doms will be bossy and inconsiderate. There's a lot of them. Doms worthy Read more… of the title are harder to come by. If I were in your shoes, I'd reach out to experienced submissives individually who are on here. Read their profiles to see if they match the kind of energy you feel about yourself. See what they looked for.

You can also read kink articles. Many of those forums are written by subs sharing the lived experiences.

A trick to help you weed out Doms is to have them tell or text a fantasy sex scene to you. See if their actions of how they'd treat you in the fantasy gives you happy goose bumps. You can also see if they can adjust themselves to incorporate what you like or think you would like. Especially because you already know you like to serve, you'll probably be looking for a master, not just a dom. But your acts of service need to be rewarded. They can also allow for the wrong master/dom to hurt you. So be choosy.

Bottom line is this journey into kink is a process. A marathon, not sprint. Do your best to not rush picking a dom out.

Does the app not let you go back and edit so that you can fix the height? Good story. It reads very smoothly.

Pretty god story. It needs punctuation to help with the pacing.

Devotion, to be honest, what you're asking for here seems to conflict with your profile. You list yourself as a sub, but then here it sounds like you want a sub. If you're looking for a sub and not just a bottom, my suggestion would be to create a profile with more power in the wording. Something Read more… that emulates confidence. Your profile also doesn't really lay out the same messaging for your type of person like it does here. A Dom who builds on the key virtues you've listed should state with conviction what they're "hunting" for. My profile's not perfect by any means. But I've listed my desires exactly. Hope you find useful advice from the community.

Knife play. Strictly in the form of cutting clothing off.

Very interesting concept. I've always approached the responsibilities of being a Dom as meeting the needs of the sub. If there were hard limits that came up that needed to be fulfilled, then it's best to think of it as not a good pairing. So this was a good alternative to learn about. Thanks for Read more… posting, and Happy birthday to her.

Well written. It flowed nicely like a metronome. The only thing I missed was what the previous order she/you had disobeyed.

She gets her very own belt that I wear that is used only for her. Aside from bondage uses, you can loop it around their waist for grip when having sex. It's insanely handy.