About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- Events & Places
- BDSM Lovers
Description
It's always difficult to know what to put in this box as it's hard to give a true vision of the person in a few words on a screen.
I’ve been in the lifestyle since I was around 16. I became a widower a few years ago after a 24 year marriage to my wife/submissive. I've taken time to out to heal but have decided it's time I put myself back out there because I miss the deep bond between a Dominant and a submissive.
I've seen D/s dynamics from both sides of the slash as I started out as a submissive to an amazing Mistress before becoming a Dominant myself many years ago.
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What I'm looking for
A female submissive who would like to grow together and learn about each other in both a D/s dynamic and vanilla in a long term connection.
I’m happy to do one off play sessions. I have a good selection of toys and equipment and do have a spare room so can accommodate and travel if needed.
I can supply references from previous play partners if required.
Vanilla World
I am a biker and enjoy taking my bike out and exploring new places it would be nice to have someone to explore with. I am also a self employed motorcycle mechanic.
I do enjoy a number of things for example going for Meals, going to the cinema, walks, gardening, watching TV and playing on my Xbox to name just a few.
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I do not have , I do not mind if you have , I do however have my fur babies (cats).
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Don't be shy, let's chat and see where the conversation leads us.
Limits
My limits include , , , s, Anything Illegal or Permanent Damage, Gold Diggers, Fakes, Liars, Bullshitters, Wannabes.
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I will respect whatever limits you have also.
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
My places
Fetish.com gives you…
Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Rotherham with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!
I agree there I personally don’t recycle collars but know a few that do, to me recycling collars that the Dom has no respect for the sub, shows they have put no thought into the submissive feelings at all
That I can understand, sometimes the cuts are to deep
Sometimes dynamics end and not on good terms, sometimes we do things that are rash, we’re only human after all and have feelings.
Some like to recycle collars with putting it around another subs neck, personally I find that cheap and tacky I always see it as a dynamic is unique so the submissive Read more… will get a collar that doesn’t have memories to start new ones with something she will adore and rely upon.
I am a old school Dom and subs handed the collars back to the Dom’s (technically the Dom should have removed it not the submissive) after all as old school the collar does not belong to her is belongs to the one that placed it round his/her neck. However in your situation I would really consider locking it away but I wouldn’t throw the key, one day you will be happier and in a much better place and will want to remember your past and the path you took to get to where you are. Also a letter isn’t the best option, memories will start flowing g and tears will start why give the satisfaction of that and show he still has some control and feelings in you.
I’ve been in the lifestyle since I was around 16. I became a widower a few years ago after a 24 year marriage to my wife/submissive. I've taken time to out to heal but Read more… have decided it's time I put myself back out there because I miss the deep bond between a Dominant and a submissive.
I've seen D/s dynamics from both sides of the slash as I started out as a submissive to an amazing Mistress before becoming a Dominant myself many years ago.
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What I'm looking for
A female submissive who would like to grow together and learn about each other in both a D/s dynamic and vanilla in a long term connection.
I’m happy to do one off play sessions. I have a good selection of toys and equipment and do have a spare room so can accommodate and travel if needed.
I can supply references from previous play partners if required.
Vanilla World
I am a biker and enjoy taking my bike out and exploring new places it would be nice to have someone to explore with. I am also a self employed motorcycle mechanic.
I do enjoy a number of things for example going for Meals, going to the cinema, walks, gardening, watching TV and playing on my Xbox to name just a few.
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I do not have , I do not mind if you have , I do however have my fur babies (cats).
*
Don't be shy, let's chat and see where the conversation leads us.
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I will respect whatever limits you have also.
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