It's always difficult to know what to put in this box as it's hard to give a true vision of the person in a few words on a screen.

I've been in the lifestyle since I was around 16, became a widower a few years ago when my submissive/wife passed away. I've taken time to out to heal but have decided it's about time I put myself back out there because I miss the deep bond between a Dominant and a submissive.

I’ve seen D/s dynamics from both sides of the slash, I started out as a submissive to an amazing Mistress before becoming a Dominant myself.

I have varying kinks ranging from the more common such as impact, bondage to the more obscure such as mummification to name a few. I also enjoy using hidden bondage such as having my sub wear cuffs or items under clothing in public. I also like my sub to wear a collar at all times.

What I'm looking for - a female submissive or slave that has her own mind and is willing to explore with me so that we can learn about each other and grow together. To be clear, I don't want someone who is a door-mat. I'm looking for someone who wants something long term and wants to build a connection and not just someone to play with just once and then never see them again. I'm happy to do one off play sessions with people but if that's what you want you need to be honest about it from the start. I have a good selection of toys and equipment and do have a spare room so can accommodate if needed. .

In the vanilla world I love motorcycles. Riding them, repairing them and even restoring them, Cinema, Meals out or relaxing in front of the tv and walks. I have no kids but I do have a cat. Of course I don't mind if you have children yourself.

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My limits include Scat, Pee, Children, Animals, Anything Illegal or Permanent Damage, Gold Diggers, Fakes, Liars, Bullshitters, Wannabes.
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I will respect whatever limits you have also.