I figure it's time to put myself out there and see where things go.
I'm a switch, but lean towards being submissive. Very much into sensory deprivation, chastity, pain and impact (the stingier, the better), bondage and many more kinks.
My dominant side is into impact play, choking, breathplay, forced orgasms, bondage, predicament play and more protocol based scenes.
if you want to know more, feel free to message me, but keep it casual to start!
As others have said, she needs to WANT to be dominant, and if she doesn't, it'll be very difficult to get her to take a top/dominant role and you need to respect that.
You can try topping from the bottom and guiding her, but that's still you being the dominant and her the submissive no matter how Read more… you look at it.
Thanks! It's just my personal take on things, so YMMV, but I feel it'll help avoid misgendering and the subs you reply to will appreciate you asking their preferences.
Perhaps you could say something like, "thank you for your respectful approach, how would you prefer to referred as?"