About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- NSA (no strings...)
- BDSM Lovers
Description
Straightforward Dom/sadist looking for my ideal brat and rope bunny.
I love a playful, sassy girl who pushes back with that brat energy, then gets beautifully *** in ropes. Into squirting, teasing, pet play, exhibition, CNC — all with clear consent and safewords.
Respect, honesty, and open communication are non-negotiable. I keep you safe while ruining you exactly how you crave. Logical, loving, and happily hedonistic.
If you're a rope-hungry brat who wants to be tied up, put in her place, and thoroughly enjoyed… message me. Let’s play. 😈"
Limits
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
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Honesty. 100%.
Whatever it is, just tell me the truth and let me decide if I want it in my life. I won’t judge you for it but the choice to keep it around is mine alone.
When someone is honest with me, especially when they know it might cost them or not go over well, that goes further than anything Read more… else. That kind of courage can actually change how I feel about the very thing they were afraid to share.
I don't know if its the fact that its so rare that makes it attractive or what but I'm instantly changing how I feel about them the moment they are honest.
I love a playful, sassy girl who pushes back with that brat energy, then gets beautifully *** in ropes. Into squirting, teasing, pet play, exhibition, CNC — all with clear consent and safewords.
Respect, honesty, and open Read more… communication are non-negotiable. I keep you safe while ruining you exactly how you crave. Logical, loving, and happily hedonistic.
If you're a rope-hungry brat who wants to be tied up, put in her place, and thoroughly enjoyed… message me. Let’s play. 😈"
Some people don't know how to politely say thanks but no thanks. I have so much more respect for someone who responds and declines. I will actually thank them for that and let them know its appreciated.
People can ignore someone and put bad vibes out into the world which in turn definitely brings Read more… bad vibes back. Or be nice, respectful and cordial. Its really not that hard to do. I personally would love to see a better world then the one we live in and that starts with what we put out. Treat everyone with respect. Do better, be better then you were yesterday and tomorrow will be great.
At first it was hard for me to go that far. I held back but eventually overcame that.
Don't get me wrong I do Read more…not *** and have never physically ***d any woman and never would. In that situation it was ok. To clarify there was no punching. But everything just short of that. Now here's the part that's bugging me. In the heat of it, I really liked it.
The aggression and the control was like a drug.
Is this normal? I don't think it should feel that good to *** someone to that extent.
Depends what is written on the contract. If it is "I can have sex with you whenever I want" - no. If it's "I can hit you with a cane" - no. And there's a whole bunch of other things which are Read more… illegal, but shall we say tolerated - but - if someone goes to the law and files for ***, then this is something that cannot be consented to.
There is also of course their side that they could claim they signed under duress, which would also invalidate the contract.
➦eyemblacksheep quote TwistedTreat69:❝Using contracts to coerse someone into something speaks wonders about your mind, anyone who thinks this way gets a red card from me.❞
Here's a thing. You have to understand subs mindsets. Why don't some subs say no, or use a safeword, or so on when they clearly need to.
And there's a lot of answers - lots of different reasons - some in that some cases it is actually difficult for them to call stop. Not much can be done about that, but this is something a Dominant has to be mindful of.
Sometimes it's because they feel they'd be letting their Dominant down. Ties in with the above. Something Dominants have to be mindful of.
Sometimes it's because they feel they HAVE to go through with something. And having signed up on what appears to be legal duress might mean they feel they have to. And it's all comms issues. But it's something that again Dominants have to be wary of, and that submissives shouldn't feel threatened by.
Like, there can be benefits for things written down, but BDSM-based contracts hold no legal weight since what you're doing is already illegal in most territories. There's even clarifications in many laws which state that "it was BDSM" cannot be used as a defence
most of what we do in kink is actually against the law - so you can't contract away breaking the law. One of the other golden things on consent is it can be revoked at any time. They can also make the scene more difficult i.e. Read more… the sub wants to stop/change/etc but feels they can't because they've signed to something - which, in essence, can cause them to go through with stuff they're not happy with and then, ultimately, not wish to play again.
There's also the issue that hard limits are non-exhaustive.
The best way to avoid retribution is to make sure you have clear trust and communication with the other person and not try to co-erce them under flimsy legal defence.❞
A written contract will have some weight as evidence in a court. Paper "Illegal" contracts are used as evidence all the time... To support a defense case or reinf0rce litigation for damages...
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I actually agree with you about the withdrawal/stop/change of play that would be something for an already defined dynamic, like husband/wife duo where assets are shared.
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Using contracts to coerse someone into something speaks wonders about your mind, anyone who thinks this way gets a red card from me. A contract exists in many states verbal/written and ***... this is how most courts globally also see contracts?
those actually hold zero weight
most of what we do in kink is actually against the law - so you can't contract away Read more… breaking the law. One of the other golden things on consent is it can be revoked at any time. They can also make the scene more difficult i.e. the sub wants to stop/change/etc but feels they can't because they've signed to something - which, in essence, can cause them to go through with stuff they're not happy with and then, ultimately, not wish to play again.
There's also the issue that hard limits are non-exhaustive.
The best way to avoid retribution is to make sure you have clear trust and communication with the other person and not try to co-erce them under flimsy legal defence.
Push harder flood the place 😀
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