Do you love the idea of a power exchange that is all about physical dominance? No equipment just strength? Maybe you should give FemDom wrestling a try. But what does it involve – and how can you get started? Here’s our essential guide.

 

What  is FemDom Wrestling?

Wrestling has long been seen as a guy-on-guy sport, but no, there is a growing trend for men looking to be dominated by women using wrestling moves and holds.  It’s the ultimate expression of girl power. Often called mixed wrestling, there’s Mistresses up and down the land offering sessions for submissive men to live out their fantasies of being physically dominated by a woman.

 

What’s the goal in FemDom wrestling?

The woman is always going to be the winner. The male can readily submit to her or can struggle and try to fight back - it depends exactly what floats your boat. The Domme will use a variety of wrestling holds to subdue the male submissive, and might also punch and slap but it will depend on what has been negotiated before the scene. 

The sexual kick for the guy often comes from being totally defeated by the all-powerful woman. The sub male will, in effect, become owned by the Domme. He will become little more than one of her possessions. It is a very heady power exchange that ends with the guy giving over full control. 
 

How do you get involved in FemDom wrestling?

The great news: anyone can do it. You don’t have to be a professional wrestler and can start by watching videos online. There are loads out there - and they're hot! Then experiment by incorporating some moves into your BDSM playtime. However, be sure to know the risks. Don’t try any holds or moves you’re not 100% confident in.  Definitely don’t try to knock anyone out without specific training. It’s important to always practise Risk Aware Consensual Kink (RACK)

You can also look out for professional Dommes who offer Femdom wrestling sessions. Obviously, this will come at a cost but you'll be confident they know what they’re doing, and they’ll be able to give you the exact session you’re looking for. 
 

What positions do you use in BDSM wrestling?

Any traditional wrestling moves work well as well as those you might already incorporate in BDSM restraint play. Check out videos online to see what appeals to you. 

Female wrestler sits triumphant on the face of her defeated male opponent
Female wrestler sits triumphant on the face of her defeated male opponent. Image: Public domain via Wikimedia Commons.


Safety and consent in BDSM wrestling

As with all BDSM practices, safety and consent are essential and boundaries need to be agreed in advance. There can be no doubts on what is permissible. Your first step is to establish a safeword.

But, also ensure that you’ve agreed on a non-vocal symbol in case the pain becomes too intense for the sub. For example, in FemDom wrestling, the sub can ‘tap out’ if he can't tolerate the pain. And then, of course, his magnificent mistress has the ultimate satisfaction of knowing that her dominion is complete!
 

Why does the male sub submit in FemDom wrestling?

FemDom wrestling allows a male sub to live out a fantasy he may have harboured since childhood. An overwhelming desire to completely submit to a woman. Fantasy FemDom wrestling matches in hotel rooms, apartments and even specialist gyms provide a safe and non-judgmental arena in which to live this dream.

But, some men yearn for the total power exchange of FemDom wrestling for other reasons. In being overpowered by a Domme, they can shake off unbearable stress by concentrating on the moment, being totally submissive to the Domme holding them down. 
 

Using toys in FemDom wrestling

You might want to concentrate on just restraining another person with your body, but the joy of this kind of BDSM play is that you can add in other toys and equipment too. Try using rope, chains or other restraints to keep the submissive in place once you’ve got them under your control.

Once the submissive is in the losing position, the real shenanigans can begin. Whip out that dildo, and shackle him with those cuffs. Collar him up – and demand he submits. Now is the perfect opportunity for the Domme to really push the sub’s limits – and seize even greater control.

 

Looking to get involved in BDSM wrestling? Get chatting about FemDom wrestling in the BDSM forum :gimp:
 

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Fantasyfeet

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Anyone looking for a sugar baby? 👠💋
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SexualCorruption

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Had my first competitive match a few weeks back with a guy who wrestles semi-pro and is big into filming scenes... No training, just me and my skills from handling my brother when he used to MAKE me play WWE wrestling when younger... But I have to say, I fuckin loved this and my opponent has sent me some great links that I’m currently researching... Watch this space 😉😈💪🏾
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bostoncrab52

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still looking for a woman in n.ireland who will wrestle and dominate me. where are you all hiding!!!!!

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Ad0NieS

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As soon as I learn I will change the photo 

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Ad0NieS

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Like to ask you try it
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