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Gender Woman
Age 51
Status Single
Height 154cm
Weight 72kg
Body shape Curvy
Eye colour Other
Hair colour Other
Hair length Middle
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin South Africa
Zodiac sign Cancer
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Languages Dutch
English
Portuguese
Spanish

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Description

I'm stepping away for awhile as need to focus on myself. Keep on loving and stay true to yourselves.
where do I begin, I don't even know as this is all new to me. what I do know is I'll never give my heart away again, or let feelings get in the way, as I'm the one that ends up hurt and feeling worthless.

Limits

I honestly don't know, but one thing is for sure...what you do in a toilet stays in the toilet not on me…… and sharp objects or scaring, already have enough scars on my body.

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Wolfy74
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  • 13.06.2026 17:27:18
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I'm stepping away for awhile as need to focus on myself. Keep on loving and stay true to yourselves.
where do I begin, I don't even know as this is all new to me. what I do know is I'll never give my heart away again, or let feelings get in the way, as I'm the one that ends up hurt and feeling Read more… worthless.
Wolfy74
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  • 02.06.2026 20:00:08
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My Ideal Power Dynamic

:1780421351,6713670, A loving Dom that will guide me gently with care. I crave the deep emotional connection as well as the physical.

Exactly that, I need the connection as well. Especially with my history....

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Wolfy74
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  • 19.05.2026 16:53:37
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MY BIGGEST F@AR REGARDING MY FETISHES IS...

That even if I want to let loose and live/enjoy the moment my PTSD might rear its head and the person judges me because of my past, and lack of sexual experience because of it.

Wolfy74
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  • 12.05.2026 19:10:11
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Wolfy74
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  • 06.05.2026 11:05:42
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How did you feel when you started your journey in this lifestyle

I just started and I’m very curious excited and anxious as well, there is so much to discover. My brain just freezes when I come across terminologies and abbreviations and I go running to look it up🫣

Wolfy74
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  • 04.05.2026 18:15:00
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Trying to move forward with my brat and make things actually official how do I go about doing so?

Then you really need to put yourself first love. As it seems you’re putting all the effort into it, and she’s just taking you for a ride around the block.

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Wolfy74
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  • 04.05.2026 18:09:20
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Trying to move forward with my brat and make things actually official how do I go about doing so?

I’m completely new to this all and even I think she is using you. You need to set the rules.

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Wolfy74
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  • 04.05.2026 18:01:27
  • Female (51)
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I honestly don't know, but one thing is for sure...what you do in a toilet stays in the toilet not on me…… and sharp objects or scaring, already have enough scars on my body.
Wolfy74
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  • 04.05.2026 17:58:37
  • Female (51)
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  • Single
where do I begin, I don't even know as this is all new to me. what I do know is I'm curious as to where this journey of discovery will lead me to, even at my age. And a heads up, I have a bit more meat on my bones, and that means love handles to grab on too.
this app is like an online candy store Read more… to the little girl in me🤭😉
Wolfy74
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  • 01.05.2026 14:48:16
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I honestly don't know, but one thing is for sure...what you do in a toilet stays in the toilet not on me.
Wolfy74
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  • 01.05.2026 12:56:05
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Wolfy74
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  • 01.05.2026 11:55:50
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An Introduction to BDSM - Arch Style

This is a good read and has helped me get a better idea into what I’m stepping into.Thank you

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  • 30.04.2026 17:45:16
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