Hi all,
This is a great site, but I wonder whether there is a reason why there are no details of local Munches, which are a brilliant way for people to meet someone with the same desires or, in the case of D/s, complementary ones. Every Munch I have attended has a person or group who share in the running of it and they are fastidious in the care and friendship they offer to new attendees and newbies in general. These are safe, fun and friendly gatherings , usually with a good balance of people with different ideals but who share the responsibility of being kind to fellow attendees. I have attended Munches in Sheffield, Doncaster, Harrogate and Leeds and they all welcome people attending who are new to them. It is a good place to learn about fellow attendees and their predelictions and learn about "kink" in General. I wonder how many others would welcome publicity about local Munches and other similar alternative events??
About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- Events & Places
- Networking
- BDSM Lovers
Description
I am a safe, experienced, nurturung dominant who is of medium build. You would find me to be sensual and imaginative as a spanker/ disciplinarian as well as caring and attentive as a partner. I am divorced but currently single and would like to meet someone as a friend or could be more if the chemistry works. Ideally, I seek a woman who wants to express and explore her sub/bratty/masochistic side. I am caring with novices and will play to your limits if you are D/s experienced. Hopefully, you will enjoy sharing time together in both vanilla and kink and be my equal outside agreed areas. I am looking for an affectionate partner who shares my “kinks”, values and sense of sexual adventure. Too much to ask? Please note, I do not play on a first date. Let's enjoy coffee, cakes and discover whether we have a rapport and chemistry. It’s more respectful....no other agendas till later on.
On a more casual basis, whilst I remain single, I am happy to be a disciplinarian to a younger guy, say up to early thirties, if he is no taller than 5'9" (I am 5'8"
Limits
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My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- BDSM (Active)
- Cuddling (Active)
- Discipline (Active)
- Doctor Role Play (Active)
- Domination (Active)
- Face Slapping (Active)
- Fingering (Active)
- Hair Pulling (Active)
- Humiliation (Active)
- Kissing (Active)
- Mutual Masturbation (Active)
- Nipple Play (Active)
- Nipples (Active)
- Orgasm Control (Active)
- Pinching (Active)
- Sadism (Active)
- Spanking (Active)
- Sweet Pain (Active)
- Wax Play (Active)
Fetish.com gives you…
Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Leeds with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!
I am a safe, experienced, nurturung dominant who is of medium build. You would find me to be sensual and imaginative as a spanker/ disciplinarian as well as caring and attentive as a partner. I am divorced but currently single and would like to meet someone as a friend or could be more if the Read more…
chemistry works. Ideally, I seek a woman who wants to express and explore her sub/bratty/masochistic side. I am caring with novices and will play to your limits if you are D/s experienced. Hopefully, you will enjoy sharing time together in both vanilla and kink and be my equal outside agreed areas. I am looking for an affectionate partner who shares my “kinks”, values and sense of sexual adventure. Too much to ask? Please note, I do not play on a first date. Let's enjoy coffee, cakes and discover whether we have a rapport and chemistry. It’s more respectful....no other agendas till later on.
On a more casual basis, whilst I remain single, I am happy to be a disciplinarian to a younger guy, say up to early thirties, if he is no taller than 5'9" (I am 5'8"
On a more casual basis, whilst I remain single, I am happy to be a disciplinarian to a younger guy, say up to early thirties, if he is no taller than 5'9" (I am 5'8"
Older Subs
A dominant has to be worthy of your trust. Through this site and others like it, you will be able to find the person who is your complement in the dynamic. As a dom myself, I have three principles which I share, Namely:
1)You and I are equals except when, through discussion, we agree on those Read more… areas where I take the lead and control. It is important to remain equals outside of that so that you can set your boundaries and give truthful feedback.
2) Nothing will happen between us until we have had one or preferably several purely social dates somewhere public and safe, say a nice cafe where we can chat over our hopes, expectations , doubts, fantasies , dislikes and limits.In doing so, hopefully , we will build a rapport together and be easy in each other's company.
3)Honest, open communication at a high level is important. How can we ever learn to read one another, anticipating each other's desires and needs unless you can tell one another openly if you disliked or enjoyed something. That way, the dynamic will evolve; either remaining as friends or develop into a mutually loving, fulfilling and enduring relationship.
Cut your losses, think about what you want and move on.
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