About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
Description
I am a 3,500 year old female looking for friends and good conversation with like minded individuals. I am closed polyamorous with 4 male Doms. I live with 2 of them and the others are LDRs. I take relationships seriously. I wear my heart on my sleeve, so don’t break it. I have a tendency to trip and fall hard, face first, for those I make true connections with. I do 24/7 D/s dynamics.
Hobbies:
📚 Reading (I LOVE BOOKS. Physical books, preferably paperback. I hate audio.)
📖 Horror, nonfiction, fiction, true crime, psychology, social sciences, philosophy, romance, drama, punk, pitch black, dark romance, taboo/extreme taboo, mystery, thriller, , age gap, historical fiction.
-Writing, fishing, golfing, hiking, camping, drawing/coloring, singing, cooking, gardening, canning food, cooking (everything homemade), baking, walks on the beach to collect shells, listening to music, making eco jars, archery….plenty more!
I do not share face pics until I fully get to know someone and comfortable with them . I do not sext. I do not video call.
I am in a 24/7 D/s relationship with my 4 male partners. I am also a service sub. I enjoy taking care of my partners and our home. I enjoy cleaning and homesteading.
I am very feminine. I love makeup, jewelry, hair bows, ting my nails, dresses, rompers, and jumpsuits. I love water bottles, cute stickers, and bookmarks.
Sexuality: I am straight. Not interested in playing with females sexually or having a relationship with females/women/trans women
Only interested sexually in males.
-Sapiosexual as well!
🎓Education:
Bachelor’s in History
Bachelor’s in English
Master’s in History
Master’s in English
Currently working on doctorate in History.
IQ : 135
Kinks:
Free use
Breeding (I have an IUD in)
Oral sex
POSITIVE only Body Writing
Tied down and made to orgasm continuously
***d orgasms
Light Spanking
Wetting
Age Play
DDLG
Having multiple toys being used on me
Hand necklaces
Praise (I have a HUGE praise kink)
Dollification
Role Play
Toys
Leash and collar
Rope play
Stockade
Threesome
Orgasm on command
Service
Stretching
Predator/Prey
Hard Limits: Already listed in profile. MOST of them stem from childhood trauma.
What I Don’t Do:
-Send pics of myself if I do not know you
-Hookups
-Engage in sexual play with couples. I am against sexual relationships with couples.
-Play outside of my dynamic
-Play games with feelings and hearts
-Engage in relationships with non-binary people.
What Am I Looking For In A Partner?
-A Dom-preferably a Daddy Dom that is 30 years or older. I prefer older men but I do make exceptions for those that grab my attention.
-A man that is emotionally mature and independent.
-A man that understands trauma and can be patient.
-Educated.
-No criminal record. No drug use. No alcohol use.
-Has their own living establishment/transportation.
-Has the ability to communicate and be open and honest.
-Has the ability to have deep conversations.
-Accountable
-Caring
-The ability to grow and learn.
-The ability to accept compliments and affirmations.
-Accepts me and my quirks and doesn’t try to change me.
-Allows me to love them freely and care for them.
-Likes quality time
-Enjoys lots of questions. I LOVE QUESTIONS.
-Is honest with what does and doesn’t annoy them.
-No physical disabilities or intellectual disabilities.
Acts of Service:
Part of my sub self is being a service sub and performing acts of service to my partners. They include:
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Packing my partners’ lunches everyday. They always get a hot, homemade lunch Monday-Friday. I pack them sides, snacks, dessert, and extra drinks.
-Plating their dinner and serving it before myself.
-Giving them body massages whenever they ask. This includes foot massages.
-Starting their showers and making sure they have a warm towel when they are done.
-Making sure their trucks are clean and filled with gas.
-Making sure the kitchen is always stocked with their favorite snacks, food, and sodas.
-Making their favorite meals
-Listening to them vent about their day
-Free sexual use.
I think it is very important to praise your partner(s) and make sure they know they are loved and appreciated. I love doing things to show I care such as mailing care packages, making their favorite dessert or sweet treat, buying them things randomly, checking in on them, listening to them and being present with them.
♥️ Love Language: Quality time, Acts of service, Words of Affirmation
Little Me:
My little side is NOT sexual at all. I use little
space to help my inner child and heal from the childhood trauma I endured for years.
My little age is 3-5, but mostly 3.
I use pacifiers for adults and water bottles. I like to color, watch Bluey, and build with my blocks. I never do little space alone, always with my Daddy.
I always do little space in private.
I do NOT wear diapers or drink from bottles.
I cannot be left alone in little space.
Dos and Don’t’s with little me:
Don’t call me pet names without consent.
Don’t sexualize my little space
Don’t attempt anything sexual with me in little space.
Don’t yell at me in little space
NO physical punishments in little space
Be gentle with me
Be a safe space
Speak softly and quietly
Favorite Book Quotes:
“Beware; for I am ***less, and therefore powerful.” - Frankenstein by Mary Shelley.
“Love is or it ain’t. Thin love ain’t love at all.” -Beloved by Toni Morrison.
Limits
Fire
Needles
Cupping
Bimboification
Sissification
Wax play
Orgasm denial
Edging
Branding
Ownership tattoos
Knives
Yelling
Threatening
Period play
Spit
Bisexual males
Hypnosis
Cross dressers
Slapping in the face
Pet play
Certain pet names
Branding
CNC
Face slapping
Alcohol
Cigarettes
Fisting
Vomit
Predicament bondage
Engaging in sexual play with females
Fingering
Food play
Predicament bondage
Piercings
Canes
Couples
Females
Medical Play
Femboys
s
Toilet play
Male subs
ABDL
Diapers
Food
d feeding
Transsexuals
Flesh hooks
Cervical play
Edge play
Clowns
Balloons
Race play
Farm play
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- 24/7
- Age Play
- Anal Play
- Anal Sex
- Bondage
- Bondage Cuffs
- Caregiver / little
- Cuddling
- Deep Throating
- Dildos
- Discipline
- Double Penetration
- Threesomes
- Restraints
- Foreplay
- Handcuffs
- Rough Sex
- MMF Threesome
- Oral Sex
- Polyamory
- Porn
- Post Orgasm Torture
- Sensory Deprivation
- Older Sex Partners
- Spreader Bar
- Submission
- Sybian
- Tattoo Fetish
- Vibrators
- Wand Massager
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Needles
Cupping
Bimboification
Sissification
Wax play
Orgasm denial
Edging
Branding
Ownership tattoos
Knives
Yelling
Threatening
Period play
Spit
Bisexual males
Hypnosis
Cross dressers
Slapping in the face
Pet play
Certain pet names
Branding
CNC
Face Read more… slapping
Alcohol
Cigarettes
Fisting
Vomit
Predicament bondage
Engaging in sexual play with females
Fingering
Food play
Predicament bondage
Piercings
Canes
Couples
Females
Medical Play
Femboys
s
Toilet play
Male subs
ABDL
Diapers
Food
d feeding
Transsexuals
Flesh hooks
Cervical play
Edge play
Clowns
Balloons
Race play
Farm play
:1784859391,2281256, sure makes sense to me. i failed to mention that i was also assured that i could unilaterally cancel the contract anytime.
so it made no sense to me that i was asked for permission......asked for input....told i could cancel it....and assured id remain the Read more… priority.....
..but not be able to see it? makes no sense.
also...the variety of responses is...interesting to say the least..
Anyone can leave a contract like this at any time because it’s not legally binding. People cannot *** partners to maintain the contract or stay with them. Since it isn’t legally binding you can leave it without any repercussions. I certainly wouldn’t maintain a dynamic with someone that refused access to it.
I have the Copper IUD and I never had any *** or side effects. I didn’t even feel it being placed it. The copper IUD is the only form of birth control my Doms and I use.
Contracts aren’t legally binding. When creating contracts in any relationship the contract must be given to everyone in the relationship. Preventing someone from viewing the contract is a red flag and usually indicates that something was placed in there without prior knowledge. I wouldn’t ever Read more… create a contract and not have a copy. If they refuse to show you the contract then that creates a trust issue and a relationship cannot sustain on trust issues. I would leave the dynamic over this.
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FOUR? Jesus. i’m a padawan… please teach me to find ONE great one.
I met the first two of mine in college! Then the last 2 online.
The first date will always happen at a public restaurant. I pay for my own meal and I order my own food. I expect the person to be dressed nicely and to be hygienic. I expect them to be able to engage in conversation. I expect them to have a job and transportation. I expect them to be on time. I Read more… never have sex on the first date because I’m a sapiosexual and I have to be able to meet the person on a variety of levels before even thinking about sex.
Negotiations and limits must be talked about throughly. You and everyone involved need to be recently checked for STDs. Birth control needs to be discussed. Ask many questions. How much foreplay needs to be involved? Is the female sub the only one being penetrated or are other males penetrating Read more… each other? Do you need to bring lubricant? Always be respectful of everyone. Always have a safeword. Will there be any pictures or videos taken? If so, what’s the policy on that? What are you comfortable with and not comfortable with?
Some females are taught that certain sexual acts are taboo or not favorable. She might view having oral sex as a way of submitting to her. It really depends on the ideologies they were raised with.
I submit to all 4 of my Doms in a variety of ways. I follow the rules and negotiations that we have created daily. They have proven time after time over the years that I am safe and loved with them. They have helped heal me and guide me. They have been my supporters. They have encouraged me to be Read more… myself and they accept me for myself, flaws and idiosyncrasies. It’s not about obeying and it never has been.
I’ve been in the community for 17 years, almost 18. I’ve gone through numerous kinks that have stayed or been placed on my hard limit list. Some aren’t as controversial as others but I do think that my age play kink is very controversial. Some individuals become angry and uncomfortable when it’s Read more… mentioned because they already have preconceived notions on the kink, usually not accurate. My kink helps me heal past trauma by giving me the power to consent as an adult when I couldn’t consent as a child.