I am sapiosexual and I have 4 Doms. I must have an intellectual attraction to them first before anything else. After that, it’s character and personality. Physical attraction is the last thing on my list.

I am poly and I have 4 Doms. I’ve always had the feeling of being able to love more people instead of being monogamous. When I became an adult I set out to explore that feeling. I am closed poly. I love each partner differently. But I do feel complete with them which is why I am not open to dating Read more… more. Polyamory isn’t new and it’s been around for centuries around the world.

My Doms make me have at least 20 orgasms and I start squirting after the 3rd one. It’s important to communicate with your sub about what is too much for them. That’s why safewords are great to have! My Doms know how much I can take.

As a heavier sub, I have to do suspension bondage differently so that it isn’t ***ful or stressful on muscles and joints. My Dominants do check ins and we use aerial yoga rope instead of actual rope because of my size. It’s more comfortable. When I was thinner I could do different positions with Read more… normal rope but we have had to modify some things over the years to enjoy it.

I am a female sub with 4 Doms. I do not do signs. I expect people to verbalize their wants and needs with me. I cannot guess or assume.

I’m 35 and I’ve never consumed alcohol nor will I. There are many people out there like you and I! You can always meet up at a coffee shop or bookstore. You don’t have to meet at bars or clubs. You can meet at a cutesy diner if there is one in your area. I’ve never been to a bar or club. I prefer Read more… quiet places.

I am a submissive with 4 Dominants. I live with 2 of them. Some people aren’t capable of love because of certain factors in their lives. They were upfront and honest with you about it. It has nothing to do with you, but with them. A person can care and not love. Many people take the word and love Read more… very seriously. Some build walls to protect themselves at the detriment of others. You cannot *** people to love you, especially when they told you they will not and cannot. Some people know what they are and aren’t capable of and it’s important to understand and acknowledge it without trying to sway them. They were honest with you about it and you chose to stay.
If being loved is extremely important to you, as it is to many, I suggest you look for someone that is capable of that. You won’t get what you want by staying and they won’t change their stance.

I disagree with the statement that subs hold all the power. They don’t. It’s an equal amount of power within the dynamic. If someone holds all the power then that opens a door to the other person or people not being able to have a voice or make decisions.

You can only cross boundaries that are Read more… stated and it’s important to discuss boundaries in detail. I think deleting an account was an overreaction on your part when it could have been discussed. How does deleting an account maintain trust? Was the image sent to your sub or a different person?

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I have 4 Doms! 🥰 I can orgasm on command with 3 of them.

It took a year for my Dominants to teach my body to orgasm on command. I naturally have multiple orgasms back to back after reaching my first. My Doms say a special word now and my body orgasms immediately in response.

Whoops, hit send too early. With our point system I am able to spend earned points for meeting daily goals. The rewards are specifically tailored to what I enjoy. If I fail to meet those goals that day then the natural consequence is not earning my full points. If I continue to not meet my goals Read more… then the goals are altered or we have a discussion on why I’m failing to meet my goals.

When meeting goals, punishment isn’t really what comes to mind when they fail to achieve. If anything, it causes a set back. Punishments are for rule breaking in my opinion.
I enjoy using a point system with my goals that my Doms monitor.

I love porn and so do my partners. It’s great to get ideas from. People can become addicted to many things. As long as it doesn’t interrupt my peace or my partners’ peace, I don’t care about someone’s porn addiction. Not my pond, not my ducks.

Not every dominant wants to be trained by experienced members of the community. The community is very subjective. What one dominant teaches might not be what another one does. It might not even be correct. Someone can be experienced and wrong.
I am a submissive and I was never trained by other Read more… submissives. That isn’t what I wanted. I took in person classes and online classes. I went to workshops. You don’t have to be trained by experienced members to be valid or to be considered a dominant or submissive.
Training is very subjective. Not every submissive will have the same rules, responsibilities, kinks, limits, etc. Neither will slaves. Training is not the same and nor should it be. I shouldn’t be trained on how to do certain things when those are against my limits.
In combination with the things I did, my dominants trained me to fit our dynamic. They took classes, workshops, etc as well. They were never trained by experienced members. Only one of my dominants had an experienced mentor and he’s from Canada.
Old guard is a myth and there isn’t hardly any evidence to support what it was or explain what it was. It doesn’t have deep reliable roots that can be found.

What makes someone a dominant or submissive isn’t set in stone. It’s very subjective with multiple boxes, expectations, roles, rules, and foundations. Everyone is different. No one gets to determine when or how someone earns the title because there aren’t any standards to follow. People can choose if they want to be a switch, a dominant, or a submissive. Technology is a vessel that allows people to access multiple avenues and do research.