I'm a female submissive in her early forties who is pansexual, demisexual, polyamorous, and disabled. I'm somewhat recently divorced. Address me as Raven in any messages if you have read my profile. I'm terrible at communication, so sorry in advance if I'm slow to respond.
I'm looking for an in-person dominant. I'm hoping to find someone around my age or older. Outside of that, I'm flexible I guess? I'm not looking for anything strictly online, or long-distance.
I'm recovering from a long and abusive marriage, so I'm looking to move slow and easy. Eventually, I'd like to find a permanent partner, maybe someone to marry, have *** with. I don't expect to jump into that immediately, but I AM looking for a serious, long-term relationship, rather than just casual fun.
Online only relationship, long distance relationship, ***, watersports, permanent harm. Anything else, we'll talk.
I'll be honest, my experience with exploring and learning as you go with my ex-husband was a BAD one. We started out rather innocent, and I fell in love with him, but we discovered over a decade together that we were sexually incompatible, no matter how much we loved each other, and it completely Read more… broke our relationship, as well as completely broke ME. I spent years pushing myself into kinks that weren't mine to fulfill his needs because I loved him and wanted to make things work, and it literally broke me. I would MUCH rather start out a new relationship knowing more about how compatible my potential partner and I are, rather than falling in love again and THEN finding out that we're not sexually compatible. I mean, I don't have to know EVERYYTHING about my partner's sexual desires, but I need to know the basics at least, and to know that my potential partner and I are compatible.