I’m a very happy open relationship, and she’s not super into this side of things, so would love a friend to hang with occasionally…
No actual sex.
As a sub, can you help explain the psychological escape I’m looking for in a way someone who doesn’t have our brain can understand, and even more, a way for them to have fun with it
you could brainstorm with, say, chatgpt what are you into? what is she into? I could throw together a script but it's useless if it's not stuff either if you are into
you could brainstorm with, say, chatgpt
Actions, feelings, etc.
Then try and see if you could organize the list, into things you’d be interested in for foreplay, the middle, what would probably make you cum (or not if you’re into that angle) and aftercare Read more… type stuff
Giving her a list of things you like might help her to feel more confident in what she is doing. I feel like for me the main stress of being a dom is chance that I could do something my partner doesn’t like so I ask a lot of questions.
(I’m a switch so I get both sides lol)
Is it mainly the speaking part she is having trouble with? If so maybe reading some erotic fiction or watching porn with similar themes might help inspire some lines? But you actually don’t have to talk much as a dominant if you don’t want to.
I’m sure she’ll be able to find her own style in time. Maybe you could try adding small scenes into your regular routine to build up her familiarity with the dynamic?
Also if you haven’t discussed safewords please do, there can be more than just the “one” and they can mean all sorts of things if you assign them different meanings