Begging

Begging for more?

Learn how to beg better

Dominants of all kinds often enjoy getting their submissives to beg. There are just so many ways to employ the principle: begging to be allowed to orgasm is a popular option, or for a way out of a punishment, or for something that is perceived as a reward. Begging is often verbal, but there are physical ways to beg - impromptu oral with an edge of desperation to it often does the job nicely! From the sub's point of view, the trick is usually to let go of feeling self-conscious and give in to a baser and more carnal set of instincts and desires. It can be an oddly liberating experience, and is usually a major boost to the dominant in question too!

What is begging?

Asking for something you want in a fervent manner. This can be with words or physically with acts like kneeling. It is a very big component of many D/s relationships.

How do I beg better?

It’s easy to ask for something you want, it’s harder to show you really mean it. Begging, like the Xtreme song, is more than words. Pour all your effort into your words and actions, really make your top believe how desperate you are. Basically, be sincere.

When should I stop begging?

If you’re all having fun, then that's great. However, when begging is too much, it can make people feel uncomfortable. If you think your Dom/s are getting fed up of you asking for the same thing, then you may actually just be whining. This is when you need to stop.

Are words always used to beg?

Not always, begging can involve kneeling or clasping your hands together in supplication. It could also involve various acts such as giving shoulder and feet rubs or even blow jobs to convince your top that you really want it. Arching your back in a spanking to encourage more is also a form of begging.

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I’ve got an idea for a date…

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You’re looking for a trainer and somehow found me. We’ve agreed for you to meet me at my apartment so we can take your measurements and discuss how we will work together to get you fit for summer.

You show up to my apartment and we exchange pleasantries. I tell you that I will take measurements of different areas of your body and that you will need to be in just your bra and panties. You’re a little nervous, but you agree.

You’re now semi-naked in my bedroom. I come and tell you we need to measure your breasts and as I reach around, I not so subtly brush my finger across your nipple. You’re not quite sure if I did on purpose or by accident…

I continue getting measurements of your arms, stomach and hips. I tell you I need to measure each leg. As I wrap the measuring tape around the first leg, my hand brushes up against your pussy. You’re a little uncomfortable, but don’t want to make it a big deal because you’re not sure if it was an accident or intentional.

I now measure your second leg, and this time, I’m a little more bold and slip my finger inside of your panties and actually feel your pussy. That’s it, you pull away from me and say this was a mistake and you want me to stop.

You don’t even know how it happened…

My hand over your mouth as I push you on the bed. The weight of me keeping you pinned as my other hand rips your panties down. You’re eyes wide as you’re facing one of your biggest ***s.

I tell you that you it will be over soon. I slap you so that you know who’s in control and tell you that it will only be worse if you scream. I tell you that I will remove my hand from your mouth if you promise not to scream. You nod your head and I remove my hand…

You start begging me not to do this and that if I let you leave you won’t tell anyone. I have a fitness strap that I use to bind your hands together. I lift your bra so that I can see your breasts. Your nipples are perfect. Your body shudders as you feel my hand against your bare leg.

I push two fingers inside of you and play with your pussy for a few minutes. You can’t help but feel a little slutty since you’re so wet, but you just want it end.

I slide my shorts off and you see my cock. I spread your legs apart and you’re begging for me not to fuck you. You surprise yourself with the moan you let out as I enter you…

I fuck you slowly to stretch you out a bit. After a few minutes, you try one last time to fight me off. I’M SO MUCH STRONGER THAN YOU. I slap you again and tell you how much you fucked up now.

I start breaking you. I’m so rough. My hands around your throat as you’re taking every inch of my cock deep inside of you.

I use you in different positions for what seems like an hour. I finally cum and you’re battered, bruised, tired, disheveled and weak…

How was your first cardio session?

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Of course, this would need to be a consensual and we would need to connect via video to verify. Boundaries need to be discussed and a safe word needs to be established upfront. Obviously, this would take place at my apartment. I value my peace, please don’t bring drama to my doorstep.


Me: White/Black/Asian. I’m 5’11, muscular and actually a trainer. I’m a normal guy with a kinky alter ego. I’m a sucker for a submissive girl who’s down to explore her inhibitions. I’m clean and always smell good. I’m kind, witty, and charming.

I am an attentive lover. I want you to feel safe with me and the sub-spaces we consensually agree to explore. I know when and how to context switch.

You: Submissive. Kinky. Sexy. Open-minded. Charismatic. HWP. Non-toxic.

NSA18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA, San Jose 3 days ago

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