I'll disagree with most of this and definitely with your suggestion for others to try. Self bondage is very dangerous and Self-Breath Play is extremely dangerous. Alone you have no one to save you if something goes wrong, yes I get it that that may be part of the thrill for you, but suggesting Read more… others take that risk is unnecessary.

Time to move beyond "Superficial" discussions about Kink. Seems you and your wife have a good Communication so sit down and talk to her about it. Like marriage a good D/s relationship takes effort and communication from both parties to make it work. Discuss what both you and she would like to Read more… explore, establish boundaries/Limits and most important WHY you want to do these things. At times we get so focused on the What we ignore the Why... So discuss that with her as well. She may not be 100% OK with everything and that is OK as this is about BOTH of you having fun. Keep the communication flowing, get feedback and explore her fantasies as well. Start slowly with small simple things at first such as blindfolds, speech restrictions, bondage, spanking, toys, etc... but just a few things at a time and get feedback during the first few times to get a better understanding of what's going on in her head.. and share what you're thinking and feeling as well. Also check her (and your) response sexually. My wife and I learned to our surprise several things she REALLY enjoyed solely on how wet she got ..... things in her head she would have never imagined she'd enjoy... but a wet pussy doesn't lie lol.... So see how her body is reacting as your explore... both bad and good...
Good luck... have fun...

If they are not interested then move on. It takes time to build a relationship and not everyone is going to be what you are looking for and in turn you are not what everyone will be looking for either.
Take your time, talk with them, learn about them while sharing yourself. Too many people rush Read more… straight into talking about Kink and don't take the time to learn about the person first. To me I want to know what kind of person they are in general first, character, compassion, interests, hobbies, politics, past relationships, etc... If I don't like the Vanilla person then I won't be interested in their Kink-self....
So take your time, communicate and if they disappear then move on.
Good Luck in your journey

Kink or any relationship is how you and your partner define it. If it doesn't fit into others Tittles or labels.. then who cares? It only matters what you and your partner consent to... what both of you want the relationship to be. The level and intensity of Kink with depend on what you both enjoy Read more… and that may even fluctuate over time.