Straightforward kind bloke, A gentleman in public a strict Dom in private.
If you are willing to accept this we will get on.
Intelligent educated and imaginative I am primarily about real life encounters, I will do cyber for someone exceptional who convinces me they will eventually transition to the real.
I'll talk to you like a human being but don't be misled I can and will humiliate you in the appropriate context
If you don't like to be humiliated verbally or physically then let me know.
Having said all this my everyday persona is relaxed friendly and laid back, it is actually quite hard to make me angry (for pointers on this you would need to consult my ex). Yes at my age we all have an ex or two... I am a flawed human being but try to excel at the things I am passionate about; so if you need your tappets adjusting on your old Triumph Bonnie I am your man. Likewise if you want to be dominated controlled and cared for contact me.

Submissive but not too girlie or opinionated, I like a debate but am not a fan of pure stubbornness.

For a more long term forecast, Someone who can be a slave or very submissive but still retain their sense of humour and can function independently and make their own decisions in public. A woman who can give a lot. A woman willing to learn my ways and desires and fulfil them (full and exciting training will be given) actively and conscientiously submissive and not just a willing robot.

Quite a tall order but ideal is a rare find I don't expect that, there will be some moulding and shaping but also accommodation.