About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- Events & Places
- Networking
- NSA (no strings...)
- Swingers
- BDSM Lovers
Description
Hello,
I have a trim white beard, full moustache, hairy chest & belly & 0 gauge Prince Albert Piercing. I workout so I'm fairly toned.
I'm a militant non-smoker, fully vaccinated, regularly boosted, safe, STI free & test regularly; interested in play only with individuals who likewise are non-smokers, fully vaccinated, disease free & tested. Show me yours & I'll show you mine (test results).😏 Anonymous STI testing is easy in BC. Ask me if you don't know how but would like to.
I'm active, well read, with an arguably good sense of humour, of average or better intelligence, logical & I like to think I have more common sense than is common. Retired from a business career, I enjoy reading, laughter, good food, good company, culture & travel. I'm a dog lover (in a nice way), most s for that matter.
I have a wide array of kinks I'm happy to share or help to explore: play with sensations; give pleasure; tease; edge; ; can be sadist to your masochist, aiming only to hurt/not harm, always consensual & dependent on the needs & desires of my partner.
I took the "My Mental Age Test" a few times & apparently my mental age ranges between 29 & 46 (either of which is younger than my chronological age:-) I'm regularly mistaken for being significantly younger than my age.
Limits
Diapers, baby, pet, furry
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- BDSM
- Bondage
- Corsets
- Cunnilingus
- Dildos
- Discipline
- Edging
- Electro Sex Stimulation
- Violet Wand
- Figging
- Fisting
- Heterosexual
- Genital Piercings
- Clitoral Pump
- Knife Play
- Labia Fetish
- Massage
- Masturbation
- Mutual Masturbation
- Nipple Clamps
- Nipple Play
- Nipples
- Oral Sex
- Piercings
- Prostate Orgasm
- Sex Toys
- Spanking
Wanna know what interests me?:
Fetish.com gives you…
Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Richmond with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!
Genital piercings
Likemantha59, Starving, DirtyDaddyx
Casual FWB/Play Partner Relationship.
Mature Kinkster seeking a female for a casual ongoing FWB/Play Partner type relationship.
I’m fully vaccinated, drug & disease free, clean, intelligent, active, respectful, 0 gauge PA piercing, short neat white beard, bushy moustache, hairy chest, short hair (clear on top), test for STD’s and expect the same of intimate partners.
I have an arguably good sense of humour, varied interests, much experience in a some things; a little experience in many things, not a “one trick pony."
I’m fully vaccinated, drug & disease free, clean, intelligent, active, respectful, 0 gauge PA piercing, short neat white beard, bushy moustache, hairy chest, short hair (clear on top), test for STD’s and expect the same of intimate partners.
I have an arguably good sense of humour, varied interests, much experience in a some things; a little experience in many things, not a “one trick pony."
Genital piercings: turn on or turn off?
Turn on. 0 gauge PA here
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Jump to discussion
The name fisting sounds harsh and aggressive and may suggest to some that one tries to penetrate with a clenched fist but that’s not generally the case. It’s more about pleasure than ***. It can be a huge turn on for both parties and a source of great pleasure for the recipient.
This is a description of the process based on my experience
Grooming is important: Nails should be trimmed & smooth with all sharp edges and hang nails removed or filed smooth.
The challenge is getting knuckles past the opening. Once past the opening I’ve found the vagina to be surprisingly roomy inside and the hand can be moved around stimulating the G-spot, cervix & entire interior.
You must be patient though without rushing or trying to *** all the way on the first attempt. It may take several attempts over time to stretch enough to accommodate a hand. Just gently stretch a little bit further on each attempt and eventually the hand will slide in fairly easily (as it should) never forcing. Stretching can also be done with gradually increasing sized dildos or other objects, little by little.
The recipient should be relaxed, well aroused and ready to be stretched. She should be WELL lubricated with a good water based lube; better to use too much than too little. The fister should slide their fingers in starting with 1 or 2 and adding one finger at a time until all 4 fingers are inside. The fingers should be folded into a cone shape and gently worked in. Once all 4 fingers slide in past the knuckles, they can be pulled back and the thumb ***to the centre of a cone formed with the fingers. The tight part is getting the knuckles past the opening. The hand should be rotated to find the optimal position; usually with the edges of the hand positioned at 11:00 & 5:00 or 1:00 & 7:00, (NOT 12:00 & 6:00 as you might expect). Pulling down gently toward the perineum (taint*) can help to expand the opening a little more.
When the hand starts to slide in past the thumb joint, then and only then should the fingers curl into a fist. Once inside the fist can be rotated or slid in & out - opening to slide out & curling closed as it slides back in. Only if the recipient is relaxed and loose enough the entire fist may be able to be carefully removed and re-inserted.
You may also try different positions. I've found lying on her back with hips raised slightly on a pillow or wedge works quite well; alternately on elbows & knees, head down & bottom up, but I think on the back with hips raised is better to start.
This is a description of the process based on my experience
Grooming is important: Nails should be trimmed & smooth with all sharp edges and hang nails removed or filed smooth.
The challenge is getting knuckles past the opening. Once past the opening I’ve found the vagina to be surprisingly roomy inside and the hand can be moved around stimulating the G-spot, cervix & entire interior.
You must be patient though without rushing or trying to *** all the way on the first attempt. It may take several attempts over time to stretch enough to accommodate a hand. Just gently stretch a little bit further on each attempt and eventually the hand will slide in fairly easily (as it should) never forcing. Stretching can also be done with gradually increasing sized dildos or other objects, little by little.
The recipient should be relaxed, well aroused and ready to be stretched. She should be WELL lubricated with a good water based lube; better to use too much than too little. The fister should slide their fingers in starting with 1 or 2 and adding one finger at a time until all 4 fingers are inside. The fingers should be folded into a cone shape and gently worked in. Once all 4 fingers slide in past the knuckles, they can be pulled back and the thumb ***to the centre of a cone formed with the fingers. The tight part is getting the knuckles past the opening. The hand should be rotated to find the optimal position; usually with the edges of the hand positioned at 11:00 & 5:00 or 1:00 & 7:00, (NOT 12:00 & 6:00 as you might expect). Pulling down gently toward the perineum (taint*) can help to expand the opening a little more.
When the hand starts to slide in past the thumb joint, then and only then should the fingers curl into a fist. Once inside the fist can be rotated or slid in & out - opening to slide out & curling closed as it slides back in. Only if the recipient is relaxed and loose enough the entire fist may be able to be carefully removed and re-inserted.
You may also try different positions. I've found lying on her back with hips raised slightly on a pillow or wedge works quite well; alternately on elbows & knees, head down & bottom up, but I think on the back with hips raised is better to start.
I'd love to build this group into a community on this platform for Kinksters in and around Metro Vancouver BC
I started this group for fisting fans or fisting curious to share thoughts and experience. For the curious, here's an example of a reaction to the 1st time:
“Finally!! This whole process takes time, patience and a shit ton of lube! Each time is more pleasurable than the next. Finally reached the point of full insertion up to the wrist. Jesus! I had some of the most intense screaming orgasms of my life. Whew! Can't wait until next time.”
“Finally!! This whole process takes time, patience and a shit ton of lube! Each time is more pleasurable than the next. Finally reached the point of full insertion up to the wrist. Jesus! I had some of the most intense screaming orgasms of my life. Whew! Can't wait until next time.”
Toys (particularly solid glass dildos) & Fisting (much experienced)
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Pussy fingering while licking clit, prostate massage with slow blow job
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Like the previous poster, I have too many bdsm/kink interests to include in a single post. The mention below of "Guys hands" piqued my interest though as I've been accused of having nice hands and on accaision magic fingers🙄 I do have a lot of experience with "Fisting," specifically pussy fisting which can be very pleasurable for the receiver. I enjoy the reactions. This is an example of a real post after a woman's first fisting experience: “I finally took an entire fist. I came 3 times while his fist was in me. Now that I've taken it, I'm addicted. That was the best orgasm.”
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