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In a relationship with applepicnic

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Gender Man
Age 21
Status Not single
Height 186cm
Weight 65kg
Body shape Slim
Eye colour Green
Hair colour Blond
Hair length Short
Beard Full beard
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin UK
Pubic Hair Natural
Body hair Some hair
Dick length 14cm
Dick width 4cm
Circumcised No
Zodiac sign Libra
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings
Languages English
Greek

About me

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Description

Hi there, call me J. I'm a pleasure dom and I'm not the basic white boy I look like - I can handle my spice. I'm still a novice, but I'm eager to learn with someone, perhaps also new so we can learn together. I'm happy to just chat and make friends (benefits optional), but I'd love to find a relationship with the right girl. Message me if you see anything you like!

EDIT: I have found the right girl! I wanna keep making friends though, help guide people (especially newcomers) through healthy BDSM, and try and be a positive presence.

My Kinks
Roleplay, lingerie, rough sex, dirty talk, bondage, obedience, spanking.

Limits

Soft:
Public stuff
Blood
Anal
Hard:
Toilet stuff
Lasting damage

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helpinghand_256
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  • 11.04.2024 2:03:58
  • Male (21)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single
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  • 09.04.2024 3:58:27
  • Male (21)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single
helpinghand_256
icon-wio helpinghand_256 posted a status update
  • 08.04.2024 20:14:36
  • Male (21)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single
PSA: Ladies, use a message filter.
helpinghand_256
icon-wio helpinghand_256 wrote something in the forum
  • 07.04.2024 21:15:05
  • Male (21)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single
Born ?.....or made?

Unrelated to the thread but how common is this? I think it's a great idea to help hold people accountable and within the bounds of sanity, but it doesn't seem like something many people would be interested in doing? And when would you reckon it's necessary?

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helpinghand_256
icon-wio helpinghand_256 wrote something in the forum
  • 07.04.2024 15:14:49
  • Male (21)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single
Born ?.....or made?

It's a constant communication right? The Dom is the one with authority, but they still have to listen to the sub as their partner just as the sub has to listen to the Dom as their partner, as well as perhaps their Master. So to say that either one has more control than the other is wrong. The Dom Read more… needs to be able to read the room and not go so far that the sub has to exert the control they DO have, but the sub should also be able to trust the Dom with the control they have given up - if any.

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helpinghand_256
icon-wio helpinghand_256 wrote something in the forum
  • 07.04.2024 15:08:21
  • Male (21)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single
Born ?.....or made?

Yeah, I believe we were both part of a thread a while back with some guy who was... Very toxic to say the least

helpinghand_256
icon-wio helpinghand_256 wrote something in the forum
  • 07.04.2024 14:50:05
  • Male (21)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single
Born ?.....or made?

Well, safe use of gear is always learned, as are etiquette and quite a lot of other behaviours in kink. Articulation and Experience are 100% nurture. Confidence, Intelligence, Authority and Creativity are much greyer, taking from both nurture and nature. I think the Dom factor, though, is that Read more… desire for power but not in a manipulation or control sense. A Dom will often want to be relied on by their sub for care, pleasure, and any power play the pair might engage in. Even though alpha theory in animals has been long disproven a Dom will, in my opinion, want to be like the pack leader. In charge and taking the lead, yes, but also nurturing and protecting their charge(s).

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helpinghand_256
icon-wio helpinghand_256 wrote something in the forum
  • 07.04.2024 3:06:47
  • Male (21)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single
Born ?.....or made?

I think a person is more likely than not to have innate Dom tendencies, but a totally vanilla person can, with dedication and determination, become a Dom if they want to. Same goes the other way around, a totally vanilla person could become a sub. Depends who they're with and what they're willing Read more… to do for each other. Some vanilla couples who wanna spice things up could have been innately a Dom/sub pairing all along, some vanilla couples who wanna spice things up grow into those roles over time. It isn't black and white though!

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helpinghand_256
icon-wio helpinghand_256 has updated their profile description
  • 04.04.2024 20:01:50
  • Male (21)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single
Hi there, call me J. I'm a pleasure dom and I'm not the basic white boy I look like - I can handle my spice. I'm still a novice, but I'm eager to learn with someone, perhaps also new so we can learn together. I'm happy to just chat and make friends (benefits optional), but I'd love to find a Read more… relationship with the right girl. Message me if you see anything you like!

EDIT: I have found the right girl! I wanna keep making friends though, help guide people (especially newcomers) through healthy BDSM, and try and be a positive presence.

My Kinks
Roleplay, lingerie, rough sex, dirty talk, bondage, obedience, spanking.
helpinghand_256
icon-wio helpinghand_256 is in a relationship with applepicnic
  • 04.04.2024 19:59:13
  • Male (21)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single
helpinghand_256
icon-wio helpinghand_256 is no longer single
  • 04.04.2024 19:59:10
  • Male (21)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single
helpinghand_256
icon-wio helpinghand_256 posted a status update
  • 03.04.2024 22:53:17
  • Male (21)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single
Planning sessions is so satisfying 😌
helpinghand_256
icon-wio helpinghand_256 wrote something in the forum
  • 23.03.2024 1:44:33
  • Male (21)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single
new Dom, facing unexpected issues

Oh christ he used the word woke as an insult.
OP, at the end of the day it is your relationship. Navigate it how you wish to, and while you shouldn't be an asshole neither should you be a pushover. Make sure you're doing what's best for BOTH of you, not just your partner or yourself.

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helpinghand_256
icon-wio helpinghand_256 wrote something in the forum
  • 23.03.2024 1:40:24
  • Male (21)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single
new Dom, facing unexpected issues

You raise a good point, in a roundabout way. OP, don't give a mile just for her to give an inch, you have to communicate with her. The key to any relationship, be it vanilla or kinky, or even a business or platonic relationship, is good communication. Make sure you're both able to compromise on Read more… some things, and negotiate with her as to what you can both do for each other, and to each other.

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helpinghand_256
icon-wio helpinghand_256 wrote something in the forum
  • 23.03.2024 1:35:36
  • Male (21)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single
new Dom, facing unexpected issues

People can change though, especially for the ones they love. We're not saying he's gonna become a dom overnight either, it takes time. But that's time he seems to be willing to put in, and we're trying to advise him on how best to use that time.

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