About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- Events & Places
- NSA (no strings...)
- BDSM Lovers
Description
Experienced Dominant, happily married but permitted to play. Focus on bondage/restraints, impact play (not especially heavy), breath play and sensory play but dabbled in much else. Pretty good play environment at home (two spanking benches, pillory, a couple of frames, one single- and one double-sided St Andrew's crosses, whipping post, large cage) plus lots of toys for hosting or travel. Not exactly a service Top but I do care that my playmates enjoy themselves and are looked after (including aftercare). Wife is never involved but is friendly to playmates. Two cats are also never involved but are typical selfish, scared mogs! I host regular play and social events amd have visited a number of other events around the country. I'm seeking new playmates and new experiences, learning or stealing ideas and best practice from all and sundry. Please note that, while I have done non-sexual scenes on many occasions, my preference is very much for intimacy. This may be part pf a scene or afterwards or both, but kinky lovers jumpr to the front of the queue.
Desires and Fantasies
Seeking new playmates to join existing ones or enjoy singly. Explore variations on bondage (peril scenarios, for ##Certain words (e.g. contact details or terms we don’t allow in our community) are on our blacklist. If you use one of these, it will automatically be replaced with this message.## nce), visit new event venues, find outdoor playspots (done a number of kinky camping trips and they were great fun).
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- Fear Play (Active)
- Blindfolds (Active)
- Ball Gag (Active)
- BDSM (Active)
- Bondage Stocks (Active)
- Bondage (Active)
- Bondage Bed (Active)
- Bondage Belt (Active)
- Bondage Cuffs (Active)
- Bondage Hood (Active)
- Bondage Rope (Active)
- Breath Play (Active)
- Collar & Leash (Active)
- Cuddling (Active)
- Cunnilingus (Active)
- Domination (Active)
- Threesomes (Active)
- Violet Wand (Active)
- Extreme Bondage (Active)
- FFM Threesome (Active)
- Floggers (Active)
- Foreplay (Active)
- Gags (Active)
- Torturer - Captive Prisoner (Active)
- Handcuffs (Active)
- Rough Sex (Active)
- Kissing (Active)
- Multiple Orgasms (Active)
- Polyamory (Active)
- Sensory Deprivation (Active)
- Spanking (Active)
- Cum Swallowing (Active)
- Spreader Bar (Active)
- Submission
- Suspension Bondage (Active)
- Suspension Cuffs (Active)
- Sweet Pain (Active)
- Vampire Gloves (Active)
- Vibrators (Active)
- Water Bondage (Active)
My places
Fetish.com gives you…
Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Harrogate with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!
@PrincessZena Is pick-up play like a blind date or first date? I have never heard that term before and have no experience in the lifestyle due to the close minds in this area.
I use the term pick-up play to describe encounters that lead to play, usually in clubs or at other events. For instance, Read more… one might get chatting at the bar and decide to try a scene or someone watches me play and fancies trying it themself with me. Negotiations are shortened but still essential.
I've been told by playmates that I cover safety and assurance issues that they'd never even considered themselves. This meant that they had faith in my knowledge as well as trust in my intentions. Experience, education and practice led me to this level of knowledge, and time devoted to Read more… comprehensive negotiations demonstrated it to the playmates. Patience is key, never rushing them and giving them time and space to decide for themselves. It's not to say that I don't do pick-up play, where pre-play interactions aren't truncated, but generally word has already spread or rhey've winessed one of my scenes previously.
For me a kinky date involves kink and not just normal dating aspects. This might be the conversation revolving around BDSM themes, terminology, past scenes, possibly future scenes. It might be with the anticipation of hours in the dungeon as soon as the drinks are finished. The degree of kink is Read more… less important than the fact that kink is core to the date.
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