About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- Events & Places
- NSA (no strings...)
- BDSM Lovers
Description
Experienced Dominant, happily married but permitted to play. Focus on bondage/restraints, impact play (not especially heavy), breath play and sensory play but dabbled in much else. Pretty good play environment at home (two spanking benches, pillory, a couple of frames, one single- and one double-sided St Andrew's crosses, whipping post, large cage) plus lots of toys for hosting or travel. Not exactly a service Top but I do care that my playmates enjoy themselves and are looked after (including aftercare). Wife is never involved but is friendly to playmates. Two cats are also never involved but are typical selfish, scared mogs! I host regular play and social events amd have visited a number of other events around the country. I'm seeking new playmates and new experiences, learning or stealing ideas and best practice from all and sundry. Please note that, while I have done non-sexual scenes on many occasions, my preference is very much for intimacy. This may be part pf a scene or afterwards or both, but kinky lovers jumpr to the front of the queue.
Desires and Fantasies
Seeking new playmates to join existing ones or enjoy singly. Explore variations on bondage (peril scenarios, for ##Certain words (e.g. contact details or terms we don’t allow in our community) are on our blacklist. If you use one of these, it will automatically be replaced with this message.## nce), visit new event venues, find outdoor playspots (done a number of kinky camping trips and they were great fun).
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- Fear Play (Active)
- Blindfolds (Active)
- Ball Gag (Active)
- BDSM (Active)
- Bondage Stocks (Active)
- Bondage (Active)
- Bondage Bed (Active)
- Bondage Belt (Active)
- Bondage Cuffs (Active)
- Bondage Hood (Active)
- Bondage Rope (Active)
- Breath Play (Active)
- Collar & Leash (Active)
- Cuddling (Active)
- Cunnilingus (Active)
- Domination (Active)
- Threesomes (Active)
- Violet Wand (Active)
- Extreme Bondage (Active)
- FFM Threesome (Active)
- Floggers (Active)
- Foreplay (Active)
- Gags (Active)
- Torturer - Captive Prisoner (Active)
- Handcuffs (Active)
- Rough Sex (Active)
- Kissing (Active)
- Multiple Orgasms (Active)
- Polyamory (Active)
- Sensory Deprivation (Active)
- Spanking (Active)
- Cum Swallowing (Active)
- Spreader Bar (Active)
- Submission
- Suspension Bondage (Active)
- Suspension Cuffs (Active)
- Sweet Pain (Active)
- Vampire Gloves (Active)
- Vibrators (Active)
- Water Bondage (Active)
My events
My places
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The know;edge that they wil safeword or otherwise raise issues without hesitation, rather than masking or ***ing negative consequences.
Backpacking across Africa in the '90s I'd reached Uganda whilst eating local food exclusively. However, I'd developed a craving for the humble baked bean. Stumbling upon a duty-free shop in Kampala I discovered some ex-pat tins of tomato sauce-flavoured goodness. The tins were heated in the embers Read more… of a camp fire on the shores of Lake Albert, with lions roaring on the other side of the lake and hippo grazing in the darkness around my tent. Not quite the beans on toast in front of the telly that I reminisced about but it was so yummy!
Conversely, I still fondly remember Bunny Chow in South Africa (curry in a hollowed out bread loaf), bison burgers in Ontario and Poutine in Quebec (gravy, peas and cheese curds over chips/fries). Travel broadens the mind - and the menu!
Just concluded an impromptu play session as a playmate passed throiugh and we took advantage of my bondage frame. Earlier in the week was a play- and dinner-date with another lady. Both wwre most pleasant and more plans are afoot. 
My main concerns are permanent damage (sepsis, scars, nerve damage, etc.) and legal complications since in the UK it's unlawful to harm someone beyond 'trifling and transient' injuries.
After a playful weekend last week it was back to work, punctuated by a play date on NYD. Picking up again next weekend.
I like the Anklyosaurus - shoulders hunched and waddling along, it always looks splendidly grumpy!
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