About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- Events & Places
- NSA (no strings...)
- BDSM Lovers
Description
Experienced Dominant, happily married but permitted to play. Focus on bondage/restraints, impact play (not especially heavy), breath play and sensory play but dabbled in much else. Pretty good play environment at home (two spanking benches, pillory, a couple of frames, one single- and one double-sided St Andrew's crosses, whipping post, large cage) plus lots of toys for hosting or travel. Not exactly a service Top but I do care that my playmates enjoy themselves and are looked after (including aftercare). Wife is never involved but is friendly to playmates. Two cats are also never involved but are typical selfish, scared mogs! I host regular play and social events amd have visited a number of other events around the country. I'm seeking new playmates and new experiences, learning or stealing ideas and best practice from all and sundry. Please note that, while I have done non-sexual scenes on many occasions, my preference is very much for intimacy. This may be part pf a scene or afterwards or both, but kinky lovers jumpr to the front of the queue.
Desires and Fantasies
Seeking new playmates to join existing ones or enjoy singly. Explore variations on bondage (peril scenarios, for ##Certain words (e.g. contact details or terms we don’t allow in our community) are on our blacklist. If you use one of these, it will automatically be replaced with this message.## nce), visit new event venues, find outdoor playspots (done a number of kinky camping trips and they were great fun).
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- Fear Play (Active)
- Blindfolds (Active)
- Ball Gag (Active)
- BDSM (Active)
- Bondage Stocks (Active)
- Bondage (Active)
- Bondage Bed (Active)
- Bondage Belt (Active)
- Bondage Cuffs (Active)
- Bondage Hood (Active)
- Bondage Rope (Active)
- Breath Play (Active)
- Collar & Leash (Active)
- Cuddling (Active)
- Cunnilingus (Active)
- Domination (Active)
- Threesomes (Active)
- Violet Wand (Active)
- Extreme Bondage (Active)
- FFM Threesome (Active)
- Floggers (Active)
- Foreplay (Active)
- Gags (Active)
- Torturer - Captive Prisoner (Active)
- Handcuffs (Active)
- Rough Sex (Active)
- Kissing (Active)
- Multiple Orgasms (Active)
- Polyamory (Active)
- Sensory Deprivation (Active)
- Spanking (Active)
- Cum Swallowing (Active)
- Spreader Bar (Active)
- Submission
- Suspension Bondage (Active)
- Suspension Cuffs (Active)
- Sweet Pain (Active)
- Vampire Gloves (Active)
- Vibrators (Active)
- Water Bondage (Active)
My places
Fetish.com gives you…
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My main concerns are permanent damage (sepsis, scars, nerve damage, etc.) and legal complications since in the UK it's unlawful to harm someone beyond 'trifling and transient' injuries.
After a playful weekend last week it was back to work, punctuated by a play date on NYD. Picking up again next weekend. 
I like the Anklyosaurus - shoulders hunched and waddling along, it always looks splendidly grumpy!
The first priority is to attend munches. So is the second. And the third. These provide useful sources of information and opinion on local activity and the wider kink scene. You also get your face known, so other guests can recommend you or other wise vouch for you, and you'rell be known as a real Read more… person rather than an online profile.
Munches come in many flavours. Some are specifically for the younger generation - under 35 is most common. Then there are specific interest munches such as FemDom, Metal Music, Boardgames or whatever. These latter might be less intimidating and have more in common with your own interests.
Intimate toys ought to be provided and owned by the one that has them inserted or whatever. Certainly there are plentiful ways to sterilise toys, whether chemicals, soap, UV or whatever, but some kinksters don't want to share. Fair enough but they ought to consider providing rather than expecting Read more… expensive presents. I've passed out ballgags often, but they're relatively cheap.
Remember that dildos and butt plags can have a condom used as barrier protection. While still an expense to yourself, it's markedly cheaper than a new toy altogether.
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