'Crossdressing' is a slightly archaic term these days, though some people - usually those who identify definitively with one binary gender but enjoy wearing the clothes of and playing the role of the other for social, sexual, personal or performative purposes - find it one they identify with more than any other. Drag kings and queens are often thought of as crossdressers, as are transvestites - though be very careful when describing someone as a transvestite, as while some crossdressing people self-identify that way it has been used as a slur often enough that it's a word best avoided unless you know someone likes it.
In a world that is coming to accept that sexuality and gender are on a spectrum, crossdressing still identifies with seeing gender as a binary of female and male. Someone who crossdresses wears clothes that are associated with the other gender. So guys can wear dresses and gals can wear suits for example.
Are crossdressers and drag queens/kings the same thing?
No, crossdressers who perform are drag kings and queens but not every single crossdresser is a drag queen or king. It is something some people choose to do.
How do I tell my partner that I crossdress in secret?
It is always good to be honest with your partner, letting them know all about your wants and desires. Answer all your partner’s questions, be ready to accept they might be angry for a time, you have been keeping a big secret after all. It might be a difficult conversation to have, but it is never good to hide your real self from someone you love.
Are all crossdressers transgender?
No, not necessarily. Some people crossdress simply because they enjoy the feel of being dressed in a different way than they normally would. Other people do it as a fetish, accepting someone else dressing them (it is usually male identifying people being dressed in a feminine way) in a way they want, putting them into clothes they’d never normally wear. Transgender people often wear clothing that they identify with their own gender, which is quite different.
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