Personal details

Gender Man
Age 54
Status Single
Height 175cm
Weight 82kg
Body shape Athletic
Eye colour Brown
Hair colour Brown
Hair length
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin USA
Pubic Hair Shaved
Body hair Some hair
Zodiac sign Capricorn
Smoker
Tattoos

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

Description

Realistic sub male. Interested in the reality, not the fantasy. Sharing vanilla and bdsm activities with a significant other, ltr, partner, eventually...
Masculine, muscular, polite and still believe in chivalry. A bit old fashioned, a bit traditional, but I have always gravitated to strong, outgoing women. Not submissive by default, but am with the partner that inspires it.
I have a special interest in chastity. A woman taught me several years ago about chastity. I have a very high sex drive and she introduced me to chastity to teach me about being selfless instead of selfish. Time, and encouragement, normalized that behavior; seeking pleasure through pleasing. I love sex, I love orgasms, and I also love a woman who decides when, how or if. I have a control fetish, a woman who truly enjoys holding my keys is incredibly exciting. Chastity is the one form of play that can be done 24/7/365. And it doesn't require any extra effort on your part. Just sit back and enjoy and let me do all the work.
I own several stainless steel devices, I have a pa piercing for security. You have 100% control. I am well schooled in long term and short term denial. You do not have to work me up to longer term, I am 100% ready to go if long term is your desire.
Am intelligent, creative, and have a great sense of humor.
I am very monogamous. Not a cuck, not poly, not a sissy, not worthless. If you seek any of those, I would not be a match for you.
Am a moderate masochist, I mainly feed off the energy of the one I am with. I enjoy the dichotomy of being in pain or discomfort, suffering even, while providing you pleasure. Your enthusiasm generally inspires how far I can go. Within reason of course.

Limits

Poly, abuse, permanent damage, anything illegal.

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Realsubmale951
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Masculine chastity subs?

Good to know. There are others like you. But but it seems they are few and far between. And don't seem to exist at all near me. I saw a few of your pictures, but most were private.

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Masculine chastity subs?

Thank you for that, I appreciate it.

Realsubmale951
icon-wio Realsubmale951 wrote something in the forum
Masculine chastity subs?

Thank you for the encouragement.

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Realsubmale951
icon-wio Realsubmale951 wrote something in the forum
Masculine chastity subs?

Thanks, I appreciate the encouragement.

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Realsubmale951
icon-wio Realsubmale951 wrote something in the forum
Masculine chastity subs?

Way too often, the first words of a first message from someone new, will be, "hi sissy". For some reason, there is an automatic association between chastity and being a sissy.

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Subs - How Do You Like To Be Approached By A Dom On This App

Just a normal, trying to get to know you message. A normal conversation starter that you would use if you met someone in person.
Nobody walks up to you in person and asks "are you ready to be my slave?", so why do they do it online?
Just be normal, respectful, and converse in a normal way.

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KINK WORD ASSOCIATION GAME

Predicament bondage.
(One of my favorites)

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Question for male subs?!

When she has the confidence to tell me what she wants without any shame or guilt. And never apologizes for what she wants.
And you do need conversation beforehand and during. There must be communication, or play ceases to be consensual.

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Realsubmale951
icon-wio Realsubmale951 wrote something in the forum
Masculine chastity subs?

Thank you for your input, I really appreciate it.

Realsubmale951
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Masculine chastity subs?

Thank you for your input, it's very encouraging.

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Realsubmale951
icon-wio Realsubmale951 wrote something in the forum
Masculine chastity subs?

Thank you for your reply.
Power exchange isn't really power exchange if one half is powerless.

Realsubmale951
icon-wio Realsubmale951 wrote something in the forum
Masculine chastity subs?

I always seem to be in the wrong place.

Realsubmale951
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Masculine chastity subs?

I have tried chastity mansion. But thanks for the recommendation. I appreciate it.

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