About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- Events & Places
- Networking
- NSA (no strings...)
- Swingers
- BDSM Lovers
- Pic Exchange
Description
I am a pleaser. Looking to please.
I am primarily and resonantly submissive. Giving pleasure and being used for pleasure as an order is my ideal position. However I am also a pleaser in a vanilla context.
I have an oral fixation so I am especially open to giving oral to whoever wants it (female parts only, but your gender expression doesn’t make a difference to me).
Day to day I am a normal guy who likes martial arts, reading and motorcycling. Being a submissive fully as a lifestyle does not suit me. I am a pleaser generally yes, but a submissive pleaser only in the given moment.
Limits
- Cutting
- Needles
- Electroplay (medical reason)
- any physical interaction with other men
- Ball-busting
- Permanent marks
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- financial
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- Anal Play
- Begging
- Bondage
- Funnel Gag
- Cunnilingus
- Domination
- Facesitting
- Female Domination
- Female Ejaculation
- Restraints
- Foot Fetish
- Gags
- Humiliation
- Kinky Sex
- Labia Fetish
- Licking
- Massage
- Olfactophilia
- Oral Sex
- Polyamory
- Rimming
- Slave Training
- Spit Fetish
- Squirting
- Submission
- Watersports
- Gyno Fetish
My places
Fetish.com gives you…
Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in London with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!
In my experience with M-D the hard part is sifting through guys initially on these forums, but then when it is found, it starts with a normal date, where the Domme should be clear in her position of control and the sub should be clearly subservient and attentive. The hierarchy is clear. The strict Read more… side makes an appearance first to set the precedent and then the nurturing comes when she is pleased with how he serves. If it’s the other way around which sounds like what you are saying by being too nice, it kind of doesn’t create that hierarchy initially which is important. When he knows his place, then he can be nurtured. That’s how the dynamic was cultivated for me at least. I hope you are able to become the Dom you want to be.
A lot of men on these sites seem over entitled. Either saying they are dom and making it all about them or saying they are sub and shoving a shopping list of fetishes they want over to a Domme. A true submissive man should want one thing only; to please their Domme. Keep reiterating the message and Read more… maybe women can feel more confident to be honest. Not sure if it will ever change considerably though :(
Needles
Electroplay (medical reason)
any physical interaction with other men
Ball-busting
Permanent marks
financial
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